My daughter has disappointed me..Inspired from someone I know..
Before I get started I just want to say I'm a hard working intelligent and well respected person in my career, I came from a third world country where , yes you might be more free than the US, but free to do what ? Free to do drugs, live lawless, gamble on poker or Sabong.. cock fighting, No rules doesn't mean a good life.. I used to live a wild life I guess, but I also envisioned myself to become someone , to have ambition, to have goals.,dreams aspirations.. My homeland as much as I love it, I could never have the life I have right now.. The money , the security, the prestige and the self confidence I have developed through many years of studying hard, working hard and achieving success. In life , if you want things, you have to work hard and earn it.. If you think winning at gambling or placing bets , or dreaming about the lotto jack pot is your ticket to wealth.. Then your a dreamer and a lost soul..
Now My daughter , I love her dearly, and I know I spoil YOU, one of my relatives A outspoken. in your face guy.. told me that you need to be more strict more vocal. more demanding.. But its not my nature.. I mean .. I don't want her to get stressed out or what I see or hear too many stories about kids. doing drugs.. getting involved with bad groups.. etc.. I would never forgive myself if my daughter was forced to do such things... But I am troubled by her actions, her face book accounts , pictures,, Like I said my family are very proud people.. Not in a Mayabang.. - showy - conceited way. More like a dignified , proper upstanding members of society. My wife is a wonderful loving mother who has sacrificed her life and career to ensure a mother like atmosphere in my home.. But to hear from relatives that my daughter thinks its cool to use face book, to get a quick laugh or attention is not only disrespectful , but troubling.. HOW are you going to make or better yet keep friends if you betray your own mother? I thought i raised a better person than that? I'm not saying I will abandon her or shun her, but I'm greatly disappointed and AShamed that she finds such postings as entertaining and so hurtful. It's hard to build a reputation or image that society will accept , especially If your from a another country , with different values.. MY DAUGHTER is deeply misguided if she thinks people think she is a True American,, I mean shes brown skin, short and hard to read. But for whatever reason she continues to make weird and senseless postings that to be honest, I'm glad i don't see them, because It would just hurt me so much more. I thought by not being a asshole , my kids would prosper and do well. How wrong was I, I realized now, I let too many insults and troubling behaviours go by without proper direction. Now , it may be too late,, the old saying, you cant change a old persons way of thinking.. In life , you have opportunities that come and go,, I'm afraid my daughter is losing many chances to succeed in life.. Shes not getting any younger or prettier, and I'm almost done withe my career, and ready to embark on my next one.. When is my daughter gonna start hers? I just hope if she reads this or someone close to her does,, that she realize I love you girl, but I'm deeply disturbed and disappointed that all the hard work this family had done to build a reputable image is being destroyed by your senseless and useless postings.. BY YOU say you want freedom.. but how much freedom do you want if you alienate your own family and friends.. and you wonder why you cant keep a good boyfriend or have a true close girl friend.. Karma is a bitch than you die.. Aren't you afraid of doing nothing in your life? I thought i raised you better than that? Oh well, like I said, I will not abandon you , or shun you, but the more damage you do our family heritage , the so call freedom you ask for,.. May come true .. We will be free to have no job, be free of no career choices , be free of wisdom and image. be free to dream.. Is this what you want?
I just hope , you realize that life is not like a TV show,. or what,, anything worth having or keeping takes hard work.. and determination. I have lived my life and have proudly served my country and taken care of my family.. Its a shame my daughter thinks , making fun of our accents or that we don't know dumb ass stuff on phones,, is really worth our time.. I'm focused in building a nice life for my family and my retirement years.. As for you when are you going to grow up , shut up and do something productive, instead of throwing our family heritage into the ground with your hurtful and often disturbing face book postings.. If you really want to change , its up to you, stop blaming me or your mother or your boyfriends for your issues.. " YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOUR DESTINY!!
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2012.
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