World Financial Group - has changed my life . Inspired by people I know...

World Financial Group- has changed my life .Inspired by people I know..
 When I was in the Navy for so many years , I dealt with the trials and tribulations of a very lonely , harsh , and demanding job, I know at times , we were stressed out beyond means . I mean imagine years at sea , with people you don't like or care about but because you have a mission o goal , you carry on.. I know some people are harsh with their words and actions but you have to carry on.. But one of the things I enjoyed or missed , was that team work concept. No matter what you are looking for everyone to step up.You motivate them, your irritate them , but in the end,, You are concerned as a team to get things done.. Many are with you , and then you have the others or the loners , the rebels who want to fight the system and think they know it best But guess what? The Military or any successful business knows. Replication , duplication and follow the rules that were set and establish by others that knew better , is and most of the time a . time and true tested method to understand. My life after the Navy was fun at first , knowing no more watches to stand, no more Long deployments or cramped living places and food that was bland and boring and lost of all just being back with family. But then comes reality , that civilians and even your best friends could care less if you worked hard in the military or you were almost killed or what. Its a stressful life when your in and its stressful after. Lets just say I struggled with real life.. Until I found or discovered World Financial Group, It not only gave a retirement planning mindset , but it also changed my way of thinking about money management. Their styles and methods were influential and beneficial to my resurgence. I'm back and live with WFG , it got my Mojo back. I thought, those days were gone. I mean, when you go through months of frustration and aggravation concerning your job choices and educational path, you question everything about yourself and life. But when WFG and their associates came knocking at my door , at first like most people I know. Are basically resistant to change and resistant to hear about things that are foreign and alien to their life style and thinking. Its just human nature to look at something now and say" Is this for real ?" Is it too good to be true ? Can this last?" I know I asked and still do , but like anything in life.. You live , you learn and you keep going. My personality is this.. I like team efforts. I like helping my team, I take the time to make them feel wanted and ready to work. We all know when we are working at a place that is stressful, lacks focus or is mainly concerned about themselves other than a team concept . For me anyways ,, its hard to work under those conditions. I did that and I hated every minute of it. They made me feel small and less of  person surrounded by people that are more concerned about themselves and back stabbing others. It was place I hated and to look back, I'm glad I'm done with them.
 Now WFG, has been my saviour , the second chance for redemption. to prove myself. The time I have spent with them has been slow and then fast and then slow again. But like anything in life , you have to keep going and striving to be your best. I know I have made a impact to so many people in the organization. They are inspired by my talks and smiling face and of course my encouraging words. I life , we dont really see that. We see people that upset and frustrated with life. For me, finding the thing , I love to do,, has finally arrived.. I love meeting people ,. I love greeting people and  I love sharing the ideas and methods that are proven. That's the whole battle in life is too find something you love and then do it. Life is short when your doing something you don't like. Life is wonderful and fulfilling when your are doing things you love to do. Right now , right here, I'm with people that are encouraging , uplifting and really helping me be a better person. Its hard to find those qualities anywhere in life. I also know even in my family , that think, Its not a great idea to focus or make your hopes and dreams on a company that has to deal with marketing and selling and depending on others for your success and monetary gains. But isn't life like that anyway, its a money driven society, we all want to be secure with our life and family. WFG, has given me that direction, I have been looking for ever since I retired. I have been on a roller coaster ride of emotions and ideas, and even though its still a tough road, I'm still standing and fighting, because I have to.. its my destiny or even my calling. I was meant to be marketer , I was meant to socialize and meet and greet people. I was meant to make speeches and say encouraging words. I know others may say , its just another word for salesman, politician, Motivator, Recruiter and the such. But in many ways we are all those things when it comes to ideas or services we may want and need. We need each other and we all serve one another , and bottom line we all use one another. I know , people will never understand successful people thinking, because they afraid.  They are afraid of being out of their comfort zone, they are afraid of being challenged , they are afraid to dream. With WFG, I'm going for it and I want my family and Friends to hear me out and just listen to why I love this WFG , career. It has changed me and it has resurged my energies to serve, to teach and to show people that they are way to being financially stable and developing that mindest,, we all want to be. The problem with the true wage earners like ourselves.. We know how to make money , but we fail to invest, plan and find those solutions that will benefit one another about  our finances. I know its human nature to think we are doing everything to get the most money and rate of return for our investments and retirement planning. I'm excited to share these concepts with all of my family and friends and of course Main stream society ,because the market is wide open and people are seeking advice and want it. My challenge is ensure I get myself and others on my team to go out and make contacts and develop relationships and make every day count , with great meetings and training sessions that help you develop the skills and desires to be the best WFG associate, Its not the destiny we are all looking for , its the journey , we are all interested and focused on. My journey so far has been fast , and furious and I'm happy again , knowing I'm doing something worthwhile and needed by so many people. My only regret if you want to call that.Is I wish I knew about this Company earlier in my life. I mean, I heard of them , but I never tried to learn about them.. Like you , I hear financial services , advice.. as something that will cost me $$ to listen too. But after my meetings and trainings and field presentations, I realize that WFG is the middle class financial advisor without paying a fee. The only time you pay , of course if you want a policy or want to be an associate. By those fees, are needed for administration and certification and finally license fees. Like any business , there is start up cost and fees you have to pay, WFG is the same way, you have to invest a little , in order to reach your goals and inspirations. Its not the hardest of jobs , and its not the easiest either , but its the a career choice I see many people from all walks of life , join up and make a difference. Regardless of your education , training ,back ground or mind set, when you learn the business and you believe in what they are teaching and preaching, then its career choice that can offer you everything you can imagine, but the key is , staying on course, stay vigilant and not wavering when things go bad or slow. Its a cycle of life that a true person of character must strive for. No one ever told me life would be easy, and its not, But for those that work hard and try to be the best they can be, then WFG , will provide that little niche or drive many have been looking for. For me. I get up every day and I'm thinking about howI want to get better and how I want to share my thoughts and ideas to as many people possible. My life has changed for the better. I'm alive again, and I'm back being that positive , mindset that wants to be the best I can be. WFG not only has given me that platform to express my ideas and my enthusiasm to many people that are need or want inspiration. If you want something bad enough and you are willing to work hard for it,than you know the fruits of your endeavors are manifested with the success of your achievement's. I know , I'm going for it and failure is not an option. I'm focused and I'm driven to be the best and give it my all and share the methods and techniques for a better future and financial freedom.  or any other WFG associate you know. I know you wont regret the meeting and what we have to say. Make a change for a better and Get in touch with me , so we can together help get you on your way to wealth building , protecting your wealth and finding the right solutions to get the best rate of return for the money we all work so hard to make and save. 
World Financial Group has changed me , and I can show how how it can change your life too!!
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS / MEL PARAS PRODUCTIONS @ 2014.. 

Wednesday Wisdoms- March 12,2014..

Wednesday Wisdom's - March 12,2014..

  Ok, What am I getting at? Well its called being wise with what you say and do? For example when dealing with anyone, always look for the good in people. I know its hard sometimes , but always smile and always be interested in what people have to say. By being focused and really listening, not just hearing things. We are all  hearing things , but listening is really a skill. Often times alot of , all of us , think about what we want to say next then really listening to the other person Thus we have misunderstanding arguments, etc. because we often do or not do the things the person asked or requested. Its human nature to get your two cents in.. The problem is,, when something goes wrong , we first to point fingers and say "it wasn't my fault" But I believe if you don't understand directions of someone,, Just politely ask, to repeat the directions. My take is people don't ask, because of ego, and embarrassment. But think about it.. How embarrassing it is , when you don't know what to do, or do the wrong thing or go to the wrong place.. Its something we all need to work on and get better. In life , that's all we can do , is get better. We should look to get better every day , every minute and don't allow ego and image hinder our progress. No one  knows everything and everybody. We all need each other to get along in this world. We have mechanics, we have dentists, and doctors, accountants , lawyers , police , judges , etc to take care of things we cant possibly know. We are all in the same game and we all need to play. But alot of us think , we are above the law, above reproach. above the rim.. But we all must realize this is a team effort life, and the more you use the team , the better you will be in achieving your life's goals and dreams.. For me. My life is my wife and kids,, and though at times they piss me off, I know they have been loyal and good to me beyond question. I know we all have our ups and downs in life and those that recover quickly re better ADAPTED to life. Life is never the same and we all have to deal with life our own way. But My word of wisdom or lesson of today is" Be wise in what you say and do , and learn to listen to people and be really interested and focused on people, I realize when I look at people they are more engaged in conversation and are more apt to help you or go that extra mile. Why? Because you rarely see people do that these days, its a lost art in this digital , technical , email , texting world.. Go out and really greet people. smile and say good morning and see how different life and people treat you.. Be sincere and real !

THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @2014

Tuesday Tips - Shopping for Car Tires. March 11,2014..

Tuesday Tips - Shopping for Tires. March 11,2014.
My tips for shopping for tires, First of all I used to be a loyalist stay with the same co,, But you know what based on experience that's not always the best deal.

1) Look for specials. flyer's , Internet coupons.. Always look for the best best for the tire you want.
2) Well this should of been first , but anyways, Know the size you want and why you want that size,
Do you want the looks , or are you concerned about mileage or in my case the speed rating. Since i have a muscle car the speed rating has to be high , because of the excessive speeds I like to drive.. 
3) Research the brands you want, narrow them down,, and decide based on reviews or their reputation. Just remember , if it has a reputation for good quality , expect to pay. I know a tire is a tire. Its not.. I know the difference and you will too, with the rough and not smooth ride.. The younger you are , it probably makes no difference. But the older you are you want comfort and luxury even for a muscle car.
4) Stick to what you want , don't let the salesman sell you what you don't want,, You know your needs and income. But when it comes to tires you are investing in your life.. Bad tires, blow outs can and will be dangerous.. 
5) Ask for discounts, sales and if your military mention it. I mean ,, It doesn't hurt and you may get something, If you don't ask,, most times they wont say, In other words be an informed shopper and be aggressive in what you want , how much it is and what types of services the tire shop provides.
6) Ask about flat repair services, warranties , and wheel alignment - tire rotation deals,, Its seems like alot to ask. But its important to have the best set of tires , with the essential services and warranties around.
7) Lastly , Read what you sign and make sure you understand all the services and warranties available, Do I have a suggestion. ? I'm planning to use Family Tire Pros in Lake Elsinore, 
Why? They offered the lowest priced tire for the needs I desire and they have all the services and warranties I was Looking for. I also enjoyed the conversation and knowledge of the salesman and most of all they had a real good special. The offer was too good to resist for the tire I needed. I know it seems like alot of work just for tires. But for the special, high performance car that I own, I wanted and will always desire the best products for my vehicle.. I hope this helps you in your next tire search , or just opens up your mind for other services you may need and the questions that will arise when you search for a tire company or oil change services. Its your car and most of us spend many hours in traffic ,, haha. No but you deserve to put the best tires for your safety and peace of mind. Happy shopping and until my next tip blog take care and have a wonderful day. 
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @2014

Manic Monday ..Mar 2014 ,

Manic Monday . Mar 2014..My way to Cope.................
   Manic Monday,, everyone is racing to work , school, appts , life. We all feel the rush of Monday's. Did you know that most heart attacks happen on Monday? Maybe because we are all racing all over the place to get the week started. But there are better ways to start the week off on a good start!

1) Plan your weekly schedule - things to do list .
2)Plan your daily work list - work and personal.
3) Make best use of time.. in other words. Consolidate shopping.. in one run.. Or make one day the shopping day an get it done.. Make a list of what you need and not what you want,, Stick tot he list..
4) Just take a breathe in the middle of the day to relax.. we all know all of us our stressed over everything, life, money  , death? But stay focused!!
5) Save your money.. Make it a habit ,, like don't spend needless money on splurge items and always look for discounts and ask, if theirs specials, or Military discounts. Money saved is always good an a good thing for your well being. Its funny when you feel like you made a deal , or what you always feel good, which also helps your well being.. 
6) Find time to exercise. whether its stretching , or walking at lunch break.. Every little exercise in our busy lives is always a good thing. Plus you get to smell the roses and see the beautiful skies of the world we live in. whether its SoCal, or The Netherlands . Japan, Its a wonderful world out there , don't let it pass you by.
7) Don't worry be happy? Its simple but alot of people , worry about things they cant control. Don't do it.. if your having anxiety about life,, than your not really living. The true key to life , is to do what makes you happy and to be proud of what you do.. Those are things alot of people .. are unable to do in their lives. Happiness begets happiness , like success breed success. Nothing in life just happens. You are the master of your happiness or sadness. I choose the be positive and happy.. When you do those things,, its contagious. People want to be around happy people,, so why not be one!!!

These are my lucky 7 tips for Monday. Use them , utilize them and make it happen. It will change your life and you will become a better organized and focused person that has direction in life. Don't let life pass you by.. Be active , be proactive, be a liver of life and not an observer, Don't let life pass you by.. 
Until my next inspirational blog. Take care and Be happy!
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @2014..

FRIDAY LESSONS.. How to save money..

FRIDAY LESSONS - HOW TO SAVE MONEY ..March 7,2014..
 First off.. the biggest key is the word don't!!
1) Don't spend money 
2) Don't pay full price wait for sales.. If you can wait you can save money!!
3) Buy Bulk , like Costco.. and make one trip shopping!!
4) Consolidate all your errands on one trip  if possible - gas is expensive..
5) Keep car tuned up and in great condition. Which means , tire pressure, regular oil changes and fluids Dirty anything ,, clogs injectors or engine thus causing the engine to work harder burning precious gas..
6) If you can get it free , than do it,, music, movies , songs,, why pay for anything you can get for free..
7) take advantage of coupons, sales offers.. and free offers.. Use it or lose it!!
8)Don't spend- I know that seems simple but we all do it.. Splurge spending puts most people in debt.. Don't give in to sales pitches or advertising.. 
9) leave within your means.. Don't try to keep up with people who have money,.Your only hurting yourself in the long run..
10) Save money, either with savings accounts, Ira Roth accounts or investments in funds or Insurance plans.. We seem to spend thousands on house , property or car insurance , but we neglect to spend on ourselves.. The future comes faster than you think and retirement accounts or pensions are a thing of the past for this generation, and SOCIAL SECURITY maybe a distant memory for many baby boomers. Everyone can use a financial coach or advisor .. Seek one out,, I bet theirs one in your family , your circle of friends or what.. If not .. Research what agencies or companies are offering services.. But I suggest, look for free information or education.. Ask family or friends nothing is better than word of mouth.. But Most of all start planning for the future. because it comes faster than you think and if you fail to plan for it,,Its your fault and your downfall to financial security.. 
In other words, be wise with you money and seek advice from those that know the game of life..
In life,, once the days and years go back,, there is no reset button.. The time lost investing , and saving , are gone,, Start today and see the fruits of your savings when that rainy day pops up.. Have a great day and Enjoy life.. Until my next financial tip,, BLOG..
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2014..

The 86th Academy Awards Mar 2, 2014 , Hollywood CA..

The 86th Academy Awards Mar 2,2014 , Hollywood CA.
   Well its that time of the year, and Oscars time,, Well I'm not going to get into deep technical observations and analysis on who is going to win.. I'm just going to make my picks with quick reasons why..ok

Best Picture : "Gravity" its the most talked about movie and it has the right amount of drama and popular appeal that will get the win.. I know the artsy fartsy critics likes " 12 years a slave. But I'm tired of seeing movies win that no one other than the critics have seen.. It might win and it would surprise me....Its that kind of a year..

Best Actor; Matthew McConaughey -  It seems to always have that special twists in roles,, and has that leading man look and style.. he's in a movie that unknown to to the masses, and it might hurt his chances of winning, My wild card pick is Christian Bale.. 

Best Actress- This is a tough pick we have some players here Streep, Bullock and Amy Adams from American Hustle , but I feel that Cate Blanchete , is do for a win and makes an emotional speech and display the class and respect she deserves or her performance. Sandra Bullock has probably her best performance ever in her career , but timimg and the competition level,, is why she misses out !
My pick is Cate Blanchete

Best Supporting Actor- Jared Leto- Dallas buyers club.. He will be the first males from the same movie to win Best Actor and supporting actor and of course , make people want to see these movies.. Hollywood knows how to market movies..

Best Supporting Actress- The J's have it.. Jennifer Lawrence , Julia Roberts or June squibb, All OF DESERVING and we all know they wont split the award.. so what about Lupita Nyong'o from 12 years a slave.. She is young in the industry , but if you performed well , then you deserve it , But this is Hollywood... My pick is Lupita Nyong'o ..

Best Director- Gravity director Alfonso Cuaron- Well liked and respected and great film.. 

As for the many other awards,, who really cares? Its too much to think about, and to be honest these are the big ones,, What are your choices,, and lets see who knows their Hollywood thinking better?? 

It should be fun and I'm looking forward of seeing that raw emotion one would get winning an award ,, for something you love to do and get paid millions to do it.. What a night ,, Are you ready to enjoy!! 
THE SOURCE PRODUCTION'S @ 2014..

Super Sunday Mar 2,2014.. Inspired by Life..

Super Sunday Mar 2, 2014. Inspired by life..
 Good Morning Everyone, Thank God , for another day of life.. I always praise him , every day he lets me live on this earth.. I always make each morning as a mindset for good will and inspiration. I always believe every day you have to make your mind set to start the day.
My techniques:
1) Thank God, just say "Thank you God, and I'm thankful and I will make this day super and great and I will do my best!"
2) Take a wake up shower
3) Smile in the Mirror-it sets the tone and makes you feel good.
4) eat breakfast,, You need energy to start your day..
5) Have a to list.- Complete what needs to be done and place the others on the next day. By having plans. it makes you feel you have a reason to live and Makes you happy to know I have things to do..
Its called having a purpose... Having purpose in life .many times gives you inspiration to do things.
6) Don't think about past mistakes or future concerns,, You cant change the past and the future is uncertain because it not here,, Live for today.. Today is a gift, that's why they call the "Present!"
7) Smile often and be polite. We have enough , rude, crude and in polite folks.. Don't be that crowd. A strong minded person.. Doesn't get lost in those thoughts, of hating , or envy, or just being a party pooper or Debbie downer. Hang with the positive people.. A true lover of life , encourages others!!
8) Think about whats important.. family friends, job, school, yourself.. Gods Words. Country.. Take care of all these things.. WE all need one another and some of us have sacrificed our lives, bodies , soul and minds to defending this nation. I know I get really happy when people , say and greet me and say thank you for your servive.. Its a small tribute, but believe me. As veteran.. WE never get tired of those sentiments ,. Please do it when you have a chance!!
9) Be ready to accept new challenges,, learn from others and be open to ideas and don't be afraid ,, ONLY POSITIVE, with passion for life, can survive in these tough and troubled times.. I know no ones life is totally on the up swing.. Things happen , people die, people get hurt or sick or what. But you have to be strong in your life and encourage others to do their best and be thankful for things they did and what they can do... Be a inspiration and feed off people that have less than you or have health issues , but press on.. Shame on you if you feel sad when your healthy. strong and have family that love you.. Because , its doesn't take much to realize others in the world are suffering.. be thankful and grateful for the life and family and friends you have , because others don't have it so good!!
10) Lastly, Take a break during the day to enjoy the smell of roses , or that bright sunny day or clean fresh air.. Often times , we just go through life thinking about what we have to do, and forget,, every day , take time out to rejuvenate and enjoy nature.. Its a gift we all take for granted. If you do these things on a daily basis,, You will be much happier and be ready to deal with the stresses of lf..like horrible bosses, co workers , weather, prices,, traffic..etc.. 
This works for me and I want to share that with you,. But I know we all have our routines and such But everyone once in while, Its good to take care of yourself and be focused on whats important in life..
Note: I also like to exercise at LA fitness and take walks around my neighborhood,, I said hi to people and when I do that I feel connected to where i live and I'm sure the neighbors like me too.. Even though some dog owners. Let their dogs shit on my yard..hehe.. Ok .. Take care and have a great day!
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2014..