Unconditonal Love for my kids.. Inspired by Brandon P....

Unconditional Love for my kids,. Inspired by Brandon P...
 I'm a proud parent of two wonderful and caring kids, When I ask,. or they say yell for something to get done they obliged.. But when they do things wrong you damn right I gonna let them know. Why because I care.. because you need to correct kids.. Believe it or not kids need direction, and often times are crying out for some. I know I can be over bearing and many times treat them like the sailors I used to be in charge of.. But it's I know my lectures, guidance and discipline will help them in life.. Life today is complicated, I know its hard to be a kid, because there is so much technology they have to know about , peer pressure,. media pressure. My kids want to have the good life and I hope and pray they can live a wonderful life like I have been exposed too. I know i had my trials and tribulations and those trials will continue. Life is never a straight easy road, we are tested and often times devastated with losses that seem unfair.. I know I lost my mother while I was young in the Navy and to be honest it broke my heart , my spirit.. I became a raging alcoholic and a anger management mess. I was angry at my family and the world.. and I did many things I should of have said or done.. But the liquid courage and anger issues didn't help.. But like anything in life , we live and learn, and that's what I preach to my kids and wife. We have to give them direction and we have to let them grow up and make dumb ass mistakes.. because our kids will. Our kids will say and act and do things we don't understand, Why? Because they are teenagers, because they are in love or out of love, or because they hormones are raging and their moods swings are unpredictable;;? Remember guys and gals,, teenage years were the most difficult times because of our moods and attitudes.. I know alot of us pissed off one another , alot of us were ego maniacs and self centered jerks.. I know alot of us were terrible kids that had too much energy and attitude.. But guess what? Its a a phase we go through. and eventually we become well respected , productive parents with great careers. We worry about the same things .. now. our kids futures. theirs education,. their future partners in life.. If theirs one thing that can make or break a person life perspective.. that's marriage.. Its a difficult thing to keep going. You are dealing with so many angles and attitudes of a person.. But like the underCONDITONAL LOVE  for our kids , we have to have that in Marriage.. You have to have that leap of faith moment with your kids.. Like the first time driving alone , or the first time on a date, or sleepover..Its a tough moment and I;m sure we all know how stressful it is to let our kids grow up.. But we have too and we have to have unconditional love. No Matter what? yes, no matter what? I know I don't want my kids to drink , or drive reckless, or have young sexual encounters.. But reality is.. Our kids have or will do that.. Am I right,, Come on guys.. you remember when your were young.. Heck. my my deceased mama and my elder dad don't know over half of things I did and they will never will , because somethings are better left unsaid.. Love your kids.. spoil them once in awhile, teach them well and above all be there for the,, Time is so fast.. I see my kids now more than ever since I retired, and its seems they are growing up so fast! A great parent instructs,. reprimands and guide his kids to do whats right. Nothing in life is a given , unless its death or taxes , those two things are forever , no matter where you go.. But Unconditional love for your daughter or sons , no matter what ? Is what they need and desire. Let them live their life and yes,, yell at them when they do dumb ass stuff, but as far as life choices.. Careers, partners, religions.. Let them choose.. because it's their life and all you can do is love them for what they are and what they will become.. and hope all the lessons , lectures and scare tactics worked,.,.because life goes by so fast.. and At times I feel alot of kids are wasting their time drinking , drugging or plain old wasting time. and not pursuing whats important in life.. Its a journey . life is.. and for alot of us. including myself, My path has been a roller coaster of thrills and chills and happiness and sadness. But one thing is for sure ,.. I'm still here and I love my family and friends and hope and pray that the important people in my life <<Make the right choices!! Unconditional Love for my kids.. easier said than done!!
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