Sensational Sunday - Inspired by family..

Sensational Sunday - Inspired by family.
 Its seems the surprise moments in life is what people enjoy and love, What do I mean? When someone does something out of the kindness of their heart and expecting nothing in return except gratitude. For example, when you attend a ceremony without pre warning and become a great supporter to the event, makes them love you and appreciate you more. I have attended quite a few grad days for family and to see the happiness and tears in peoples eyes is a wonderful experience.
 But one occurring thought ran through my mind,, its called positive energy , positive attitude, I know when you have kids and they make mistakes , we blame them more than us.. But we also need to be accountable for their actions, Because kids, follow the leader, if the leader is corrupt , if the leader is dishonest and insincere, kids or our kids will follow suit.. I know some kids take longer , much longer than other kids, and I pray for their parents that will be patient.. But that's what life is,, is not only a process or journey, But a TRANSFORMATION.. of ideas, attitudes and thoughts. We as parents as mentors , as instructors , must be confident, must be positive and must be hard charging in your thoughts, guidelines and goals for yourself and your kids..
 Your mind , your state of mind controls everything in life and without it, your lost, some people rely on instincts , or life experiences , education, etc.. But you must have a leap of faith in God ,, and believe in what he has in store for you, and don't be afraid,, Throughout my life, I have always been the underdog, the fighter, the rebel so to speak. Why? Because I don't follow the trends, or what the majority thinks is right.. I always have been my own drummer , my own band,, My own leader,, and I have always strived to rise above the negative connotations and thoughts people have of me.. Its funny how you look , how you dress and how you carry yourself, dictates how others feel about you,, But you something , it really doesn't matter what others think of you , including your spouse or loved ones,, Its how you feel and how you let the Lord play in your heart. We cant please everyone and I spent a lifetime trying to.. and guess what ,, ? Its impossible to do, so now that I'm middle aged and have lived a long life, I see happiness as my own state of being , and I don't need others to validate how I feel or believe in.. I'm a positive go getter and I never lose faith and never give up on anything. despite what others may do.. I don't fall victim to negative thoughts or ideals, Because that's what the demons what , they want to control your mind set, They want to devour your attitudes and beliefs,, But fight those demons , fight those evil thoughts,, Be strong in your conviction's and be open to those that love you no matter what? It seems couple or loved ones forget that.. They lay too many demands on their partners and say many bitter thoughts to make them react or do something,, But it only poisons the mind and how they feel about you and after many years of abuse,, Its takes it toll,, and even the most positive person, gets turned off,, But the key is keep a open line of communication and forgive people for mistakes or errors in judgements.. I always give the most positive spin on life for my kids, and when I do make mistakes I take full accountability for that.. I want my kids to be happy and by instilling positive vibes and a never quit attitude , they will transform into ready and willing adults, Its out job,, its our destiny to give full and unconditional support for our kids,, But many of us , don't do that,, We get CAUGHT UP with our own ideals or goals about our kids , and when they fall short , we blame them.. But we need to really step back, and say,,Did I do enough , say enough, teach them enough ,, why do they stray and make bad decisions,, We cant always be with our kids, but if they feel in their hearts what we instilled in them, They will be good kids.. Its in the heart the rules our behaviours,,, if we love someone and care enough for that person.. we do things,, little things , big things , we recall good days and bad days and thank them fro all the days.. Life is so unpredictable. .. we can go anytime, so that's why I take the positive approach to life and when I See family I greet them with so much love and attention, because it may be the last time you see them. It makes reunions so special.. Sensational sunday to me means spending time with family and reinforcing your ideals and beliefs about life. We as parents have so many dis tractors an peer pressure that interfere with the growth of kids,, But we must mentor and teach our kids at every moment we can, and we can only hope and pray that our kids take what we say or do to heart, Because that's what will dictate and and direct their life,, Its what they do when we are not around that's so important  Not what they say in front of us that counts,, its what they do when we are not there,, That's when we know they listened to our lectures and thoughts and that action speak louder than words..
 My last thought.. it doesn't matter how much education , training , skills you may develop and earn, but if you have no character, you are nothing, and society doesn't support you fully with that type of mind set. You must care for others and practice what you preach. Because you are what you do, more so than what you say.. Sensational sunday,, enjoy it and be good to your kids , family and friends, and remember you cant give what you don't have,, Like love, respect , and honor,, those are earned in friendships and relationships..
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