Too much of a good thing. Inspired by past experience.

Too much of a good thing .. Inspired by past experience..
  In life some things need to be separated , like oil and water , fire and ice,, match and a gas.. Why? First off they counter act or over react to one another. But in life ,, we all meet people or persons that seem like the real deal? The true friend , that twin so to speak.. But like anything that is too close for comfort or too alike............ Jealousy , attention seeking thoughts or ideals come through,,, and well how great it may have been .. in the end.. it was not worth the efforts? I know.. what am I trying to say ? In a nut shell, I'm saying if you meet someone that says they are with you all the way and you agree or suckered into that belief.. In the end.. its not true.. when someone is complementing you ,, they are really feeding their own egos.. they are really telling you what they think of themselves,, But like so many men or women.. alike,, we all like to hear great things about us,, Its human nature,. we want to be happy, and we want to have fun.. especially the older we get,, we know time is running down on us., i always thought when i get older I would develop patience.. Guess what? Not true if anything. the older you get the less patient you get and less tolerant of those personalities that are annoying,,. Like those goody too shoes always smiling types,, or the YES MAN. people always agree.. Lets face it.. most people want to hear the truth from true friends,, that's why it hurts when they say the truth,,. But if you want to grow up or succeed in life, you cant be afraid of the truth.. It makes you grow and makes you decide what you want in life.. As I got older I wanted to relive my youth, and guess what,, it has been fun,, or still is, But I also want to raise my family the right way with correct values,, I want them to be the men I want them to become ,, respect people that give it back and honor those that honor one another.. Be wary of demanding and manipulative people, be wary of fakes or hypocrites,, say one thing but their actions or past Action's dictate what they are.. In addition,, listening to someone that has been divorced ,, telling you or advising you on marriage,, is well stupid.. and I'm guilty of that,, I ate it up because they were sweet talking and said the right things and of course studied pscychology ideas and techiniques.. But guess what? Thats why we live.. We are gonna face and meet people of all kinds of shapes and thoughts,, Its up to us if we engage in such friendships,, In addition,, trust your instincts and first impressions.. Your inner voice or conscience sometimes give you warning signs or social cues to take warnings,, I should of listened,., My first impression of my so called true friend,, is what I think of them now,.... Attention seeking , selfish , self promoting arrogant , never satisfied , I don't care attitude.. Do any of you like that as a friend or best friend,, I think not,, But like anything in life,, everything has a shelf life or life cycle,, we just had to play itself out.. What was once the coolest friendship,, Now,, its embarrassing and forbidden.. But its ok.. We are going on.. like you expect anyone of our ages or what.. Its just.. a shame.. no one thought about having self control,, or what.. ? But what do expect when you have similar thinking people with attention seeking needs and and egos beyond the measurement of human consumption.. Two of a kind,, can be more like the explosion of mass production.. So what is the lesson or moral to the story,, Its simple.. if its too good to be true,, is usually is.. and trust your guts and first impressions.. if not make judgements right away, at least be wary ..of those that want to or so interested in your life.. Because they might be using you as a experiment or research or worse yet,, just love playing with your emotions,, because they don't have any,, People that play with peoples emotions and think its ok,, are not the types of people that develop true friendships and great family ties,, But that's their problem.. because they were concerned about feeling good, than being good, they were concerned about their needs than the needs of  others.. but some people are used to that , because in life ,, they got to their status because they know how to say and do the things you need to succeed, Perhaps.. I need to adopt those ways,, But I'm the crowd that respects dignity and self respect and look to have my family proud of everything I do.. Another lesson... if you hide what you are doing ,, than its probably not a good thing to do,, and that's the difference between people with true characters,, and those that are shady characters.. I don't need those types.. and I'm glad ,, I'm free from that friendship and family ties that don't agree with my life style.. You know what.. Its mind over matter. I dont mind because you don't matter, and opinions are like ass holes,, everyone has one and they all stink.. !! Too much of a good thing,, that is so true,, if anything My lesson in this blog,., is simple, Be balanced in your life and be wary of those that are too interested in your life and what you have done,, Chances are,, they are more intrigued about why you act that way , than how to help you.. Its hard to define ,, at times,, because when one is caught up in the friendship. relationship.. we think the best of each others intentions.. But when the end comes down.. You realize,, that betrayal and not confessing your mistakes or misjudgements ,, and lastly failure to apologize for their actions,, Is a clear signal.. that they were just shadows,, or mirrors of one another. In other words,, they just imitated or reflected what you want to see or hear.. Not true representations,, but just lies, lies, and fabrications of friendship,. So what do you expect,,? nothing.. I expect nothing from people that have true love, or true feelings about human relationships.. You cant give what you don't have? How can you expect anyone to love you, when they don't know what real love is,, How can you get respect from people that dont have it in themselves.. You can share care if you don't have it,, am i right. ok,, its like if you dont have money, how can you share it with others,, you cant!! Its the same with love, respect and care.. You cant give it to others if you don't know what it is and don't carry it with you,, true love or friendship,, takes true time and care to develop..and I mean.. it takes time,, like years to develop, not weeks , or months,, or a few parties together.. But like foolish teenagers in a mid life crisis,, some people do foolish things and some of us,, Can admit it and leafrn form it,, while others like to point fingers and play the blame game,,, ok.. its cool,, I don't need those types of people in my family life or friendship.. Its not the only time a family tie or friend has betrayed and abandoned me.. and to be honest , I',m more disappointed than angry .. about the denials and blame game accusations, but hey.. Life goes on,, and we live and learn.. I have a great wife of 23 years and great kids,, and the best and weirdest , fun loving fb book friends on this planet and I love you all,. and I appreciate all the likes on all my blogs.... dance postings and thoughts of the day.. We all enjoy one another and I plan to be Me.. and Lets have a great day and life.. !!! 
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