Spiritual Sunday.. April 27,2014..
To me Sunday is the most laid back day of the week, unless its NFL football season. But the old adage going on a Sunday drive or barbecuing in the back yard and just chilling so to speak before the work , school week begins.. For me,. I like to use Sunday as the relax and get extra sleep , and rest and prepare my listing or honey do list for the week. But most of all its a day to thank God, I know some of you may not like those references , but God and his spirit has blessed me so many times, in my youth or even today. I thank him every time I wake up, and before I go to bed. I mean,, it should be that way.. just pray and talk to him when things are going well , for me,. people who ask god for help when in need or in trouble.. Is selfish... To me.. if you really have a connection. you pray always an often.. and listen to his promptings.. What" that you say? Its those intuitive , in your gut feelings you have when you are about to do things in life.. Listen to them , its advising you to do the right things. Often times, we are s busy and so self absorbed , that we don't listen to our inner feelings. Why? Because a lot of us , including myself. Believe we can handle things all by ourselves. but I know life is journey a venture and we all will make mistakes, do the wrong thing , let our emotions get the better of us.. Why? Because we are emotional beings that often need others to feel vindicated and validated in this world. But I realized , through trial and error, only the heavenly father will guide us to the right path in life. But , don't fear, because we all will do things we shouldn't do or say things we should of shown restraint , but our true family and friends realize that and love you for what you are.. For me.. We all know those family members that look for attention and say and do things that draw favorable and unfavorable reactions.. But its ok,, because in life we need people like that ,, the party people , the story tellers, jokester are needed because life would be so boring. So , my lesson today or advice, be happy in your skin, and be what you are.. and if others are offended or haters, just wave them off.. and say to them or yourself better" Its mind over matter, I don't mind because you don't matter!,.. Just remember , haters will hate and jealous and envious people are miserable.. if your miserable , how can you be happy and so they get satisfaction out of making you feel miserable.. My secret.. Smile and kill them with kindness, that will make them more miserable than using profanity or derogatory remarks.. because you showed them you are higher than them and your taking the high road.. Don't mess with the muddy waters and stay on top.. That's the way I love t think and feel. Nothing a miserable person can say or do will upset me.. I mean why should it? I mean if I'm happy with my life , my wife , my family,, why should I be concerned about someone that doesn't matter. I mean are you paying my bills or giving me money ,,, So , take your pity party and negative , doubting thoughts with you in a corner with the other losers and failures in life. I know I'm successful because I stay focused and determined to do well in life and don't let others misfortunes , interfere with my goals and aspirations. I know how can anyone be so positive all the time.. Its not easy , but you must think and self talk yourself into being positive and reflecting those images to others. Like anything in life , enthusiasm , passion and desire is contagious. people love to be around people that have those feelings.. Its human nature if people are happy and having fun,, of course you want to be around them.. So go out and spread the happiness, smile when you greet people and be happy , see how you feel and see how people treat you back.. What do you have to lose, other than a bad attitude.. be positive and be happy and don't let others change your mind set and your true self.. because they are miserable.. Be stronger than them, by ignoring their comments and going on being what you are, A winner , not a whiner, A leader , not a loser.. A positive image , not a pity party , negative Nancy, Debbie downer.. be happy and be good no matter what. It will make you and the ones around you happier !!! Until my next blog.. Don't worry be happy and Be true to those that are true to you.. !!
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @2014...
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