Happy Thanksgiving 2016.. Inspired by life events..

Happy Thanksgiving 2016.. Inspired by life events..
  Happy Thanksgiving to Everyone. Be thankful for another day , week, month , year , years of life. I know I have lived 52 years and every day I wake up I'm thankful.. Why? Because I have seen classmates get killed , commit suicide throughout my life. Death never feels good. I mean I never actually felt it , but years ago when My beloved mom died during the holidays.(1996). That changed my life forever. I know , if you have kids you supposed to be in the spirit of Christmas Cheer and holiday happiness. But to be totally honest when my mom passed away some 20 years ago , it changed my mood about the holidays forever. and now that My kids are grown up , the holidays don't seem the same, I mean they re off to college or in high school with their own ideas , and friendships. I know I shouldn't feel that way? But its what I feel. The holidays blues I feel every season. I used to think how can so many people feel so lonely during these days? why because the ones we loved have grown up doing their own thing. The times of our kids being with us.. are gone.. I mean time flies.. I can still recall my kids enjoying Christmas in Japan, with real snow in the ground or spending time with family just being there.. But now it seems time goes by so fast, especially when your grown like me..It seems every year .. time goes faster and faster and time flies by .. Its kind of scary thinking how fast time flies.. But you know the best way to deal with it is be happy each day and enjoy everything you have.. 
 For me I'm Thankful.

For my loving family , their unconditional love no matter what is what family is all about, i know.. sometimes its hard to forgive what our family does to us? But we have too , we need to.. because family is truly a gift from God.. 
 I'm Thankful for my health , not just physically but  mentally and emotionally, Its important to play brain games and keep your mind active. Your mind is a muscle and if not properly used. It can get fat and lazy and affect your mood and thoughts.. Just something to think about..
 During this time I'm Thankful for Sports. I love watching football. For many of us its an addiction, we can watch it all day long,., sorry wives.. but its something about cheering for a team or individual.. during a sporting event. Its like your a part of that team or fighter , or driver or whatever.. Its surreal , its unreal and its emotional. Sometimes I wish I didn't care so much because its so stressful to win or lose.. But like a addict we keep coming back for more.. But I'm thankful for these outlets.
  Final thoughts.Be thankful for your family and friends and be happy with whatever makes you happy , riding a bike, driving , hiking , walking , singing , writing, reading.. If you love doing it , then do it. Because to me that's the true pursuit of happiness. I feel we all want to be happy in our lives and in order to do that you have to engage in things you enjoy. Be thankful to life and be grateful to family and friends and be strong during these times and also be good to one another , because we all want to be happy in life, why would you want others not to. Its not morally right or ethical to wish ill will or death to anyone, unless they threaten your own way of life. Then if that happens.. Then human nature is to protect our way of life.  Be happy during these holidays and enjoy every moment , because nothing stays the same happiness is a state of mind and we all want that feeling. Smile and Be happy ,, Make it happen this year.. Smiling at people puts people at ease.. Exercise that activity and enjoy life.. Take Care..Always and be active!
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