Life is unpredictable.. inspired by the untimely death of Actor Bill Paxton..

Life is unpredictable.. inspired by the untimely death of Actor Bill Paxton..

   Today's passing of Bill Paxton was untimely and sad because we all knew him in Tombstone  as Morgan Earp...U571. as LT CDR Mike Dahlgreen ,, or atleast I do. Maybe I aging myself, but this holds more meaning because he was only 51 and I'm 52.. so when someone dies in your era so to speak it makes it more meaningful.. 
 Everyone or at least alot of people think surgery is common and safe, but that's not true people can die from the simplest forms of surgery . Its the complications, after wards, infections, body rejecting the procedure , bacteria , germs etc.. So when some one famous and loved for his compassion and love, it takes another perspective.
   My point is Life is unpredictable, we all think , believe we will live forever or at least a long time, but things happen.. shit happens.. Like car accidents, plane crashes, drive by shootings, drive drivers , drug using drivers, mentally ill crime sprees. If anything every breath we take , every move we make should be loved and cherished. In the Military I have seen people come and go at a moments notice.. It makes you appreciate what you have or don't.. I used to worry about the future , but now I appreciate the present and be good to people.. I know some people irritate us , frustrate us? But bottom line, we are just trying to get through life , because life is so fast . if you don't take time out to smell the roses or enjoy what each day brings. Saying Hello to people , smiling and making people happy should be our goals in life,, But we think about bills, we think about our kids , our car trouble , our pets , our house etc.. Hurry hurry to worry , worry... crazy but its the life we live especially in California.. we have the fancy homes, the cars , the clothes, the guns, the malls, etc.. We want to work hard to play hard ,we do things to feed our needs or so called needs. But many times we get lost in the Rat race of trying to out do one another.. In the end it doesn't matter what we have or had when life is over.. Its your legacy its your image or perception people will remember you..
 As for me.. I just want to touch people either through my many you tube videos , or my blogs and if I can make you smile ,think , learn, motivate or inspire one person , my legacy is in tact. I write blogs for therapy , it helps me fight off boredom or even depression , at times, because Like you I hate hearing or reading about useless murders , useless crimes against humanity , I'm tired of the disrespect and the evil around the world.But I just pray and hope good will overcome, But even the most optimistic person has to wonder about today's world. But like the untimely passing of Bill Paxton, I have a new perspective on life. Its that because life is unpredictable,, you have to enjoy life and do what you want to do ,whether it pleases your loved ones or not. Because we all are searching for happiness and meaning to life and to me its simple , be good to people and help them .. I like to think karma follows karma , and you will find a way to overcome the problems and issues in life. 
  To the Bill Paxton family if some how some way this gets back to you, I want to wish you well and May God bless your family , its a tough time in your life and it will take time to heal if ever. I know when My mama passed many years ago... It hurt me , and still does when I think of her. But I try to keep her legacy alive by being a sweet person like she was and that way I know .. I lived my life the way she wanted it to be..I'm not perfect . but I like to think I look to improve myself daily and look to advise my boys to be men and try their best. At times I'm disappointed with them but I keep parenting them because that's what true parents do.. For those thinking about having kids or have them already , please keep that in mind.. be a parent when need be and be strong for them. I know its not easy , but our wisdom and life experiences is what helped us make it in life.. Pass on those those life lessons to them so they can learn. Until my next blog.. remember life is unpredictable and you never know , so be happy and share happiness with your family and friends. 
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