HAPPINESS IS.. inspired from facebook family and friends...

HAPPINESS IS...
 HAPPINESS is... ok,, what am I trying to do? How can anyone define happiness in this day and age. But from my inputs i get from twitter , email and face book, and of course personal interactions I get this recurring theme or thought. I'm not happy , I'm Lonely , I'm... Ok,, first off , really , just think about the big picture , just not where you are at right now , but where you are trying to get to.. Happiness or true happiness in unattainable , its like containing air , you breathe  it , you feel it , but can you totally contain it, I mean you can , but theres always more. My spin is happiness is like that. Once you experience one form of happiness , you want another right? Ok,, examples , in grade school , some of us wanted to be the fastest runner in school , or the best speller , or the best looking, or most popular.. But guess what,, theres always something or someone better than you.. Just like records in sports,, they are meant to be broken. Just like happiness, you are never truly happy , because its human nature to want more happiness, more fun, more money.. If your are satisfied with one happy moment than you are boring or about to die.. We all have seen un happy people, right? Just look around your work spaces , and see whose in charge, are they really happy , running over people , making lives miserable.. Some might say yes.. But MY take. You cant give love , or happy moments if your not feeling it yourself.. Am I right? Me.. I'm a happy person, and I like making others happy.. But I'm also a moody person, and at times that affects people too. In other words , we are what we are and we aspire for what we want in life. But to be truly happy is a unattainable goal.. I've seen many people in foreign lands,. Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia , Singapore, do anything for money , selling their bodies , massages, manicures , etc. for nearly for nothing.. Are they happy? They seem like it.. I mean , as long as they can find something to eat and drink for the day.. brings them happiness. Could u be happy in those circumstances? I mean no bills to pay, or taxes , or duties  to pay attention to. Just live each day as a gift. I believe happiness is state of mind.. You choose to be happy or sad. We all have our problems with bills, where do i get money for all of them. We all have some health issues.. too skinny , too fat, drink too much,, to light , to dark,, etc.. pains in our backs, feet, heads.. But some of those things cant be controlled , its just the ravages of time and wear and tear of the human body. But our state of mind , our moods , are based on how we feel,. and how we act. I like being around happy , positive people,, don't we all ? I mean theres nothing worse then being around losers, whiners, complainers , its gets old.. But we all love those confident , happy sharing people , because they are so few of them in this world.. Theres too many people who want to make you un happy , because they are not.. Misery loves company!! My quick spin, " Mind over Matter!" We don't mind because they don't matter!" Use it and abuse it.. When someone wants to destroy your day.. say to them or yourself.. I don't mind because they don't matter. Right? I mean do those people live with you , do they party with you, are they your friends. If so... then you have issues.. Be true to those who are true to you.. I realized in my life , you cant select who your supervisors or bosses are , but you can choose your friends.. Be wise.. Choose wisely.. and drop those fools that degrade you, persecute you , judge you. because the true believers know.. " Theres only one judgement day coming and that power will ultimately decide every ones fate.. " Karma" Whats comes around goes around so be careful how you treat people. It may come back to haunt you some day..
 Final say. Happiness is state of mind and enjoying the blessing of the almighty one.. I'm happy each day i can wake up and see the sun rising , because I know I get a chance to enjoy what life is all about .. which is experiencing things like the birds chirping , or the tress bustling in the wind or the clouds forming beautiful designs in the sky . Take a walk and enjoy it.. Because happiness is all around us.. we cant contain it.. its free flowing and yours , if you decide to embrace it.. Until my next ..? Take care and be Happy... The Source productions @ 2011..