SD SPORTS ARENA NIGHT CLUB 80'S.INSPIRED STORY FROM someone..

SPORTS ARENA - night club-- in the 8o's Inspired story from someone..
   Ok, Back in the day I was a player, no not a football player or basketball , but a womanizer , skirt chasing dude.. Now Am I proud of that. Yes and No, I mean , what dude wouldn't want to brag about the women or girls he had . But now that I'm a mature adult with kids ,, I don't or would not approve of that behaviour now.. Gosh how times have changed. Before  I begin my story , I would like to apologize to Teresa , her real name , What I did and What I said during those days were in proper and terribly heart breaking on your part. You had no clue who you were dating and how I was .. But I've seen you and you look happy with your husband , so in that respect I'm not concerned about how you feel. But I bet you hate me.. But remember that was along time ago..
    Once upon a time.. I was a young , and horny kid. I spent alot of money on face creams , expensive vitamins , I went to a beauty parlour to get my hair done by a gay and lesbian stylist and I also had manicures , pedicures , went to massage parlours,, In other words I pampered myself. You might say , that's Gay , that's faggish.. Ok.. if taking care of what God gave me.. being a fag,., then a fag I was.. I loved to go shopping for clothes,.Yes I was a clothes fanatic.. I had alot of shoes, pants, jackets, suits , ties.. I love to dress up .. even if it meant i over dressed. I weighed 125 lbs. I had a six pac and had a great facial complexion. I ate right , but I did drink alot of alcohol., But my fanatic work outs which consisted of long ten mile runs daily,, plus push ups and sit ups until fatigued.. But I also like to attract women.. I dated sometime 3 0r  4 women at a time. Sometimes I would flaunt it to them I was seeing other women , but they didn't care,, and Im sure they were seeing other men.. and some cases women.. But.. I decided to date this pretty filipina.. She looked like a China doll. really sweet , In fact she was probably the sweetest girl I ever dated, but she was boring.. she couldn't dance , couldn't kiss well and dressed like a old lady.. I mean she was a bit old < i guess,  But i thought lets see what i can do,,? So i dated her.. and people including my dearly departed mom thought , she;s a sweetheart,, and she's seems like she was into me.. in fact when she went to PI , she bought me Kali fighting sticks.. which I never accepted because I broke it off..
   Ok.. the night club,. night,. I was dressed to impress , I was in a purple suit.. and she was dressed nice but conservatively.. We go inside. and I try to get her to dance, she doesn't want to,, to I decide to dance with this young girl.. wearing a tight ass mini skirt.. Of course , I m enjoying this and I start dancing more closely.. In fact before the night is out I get her number.. I know I brought a date and I manage to get a number.,. What was funny this black guy asked my girl if she wanted to dance. Of course I'm watching this go down.. But my date refuses and , just spends the whole night drinking and watching me.. At one point , I beg her to go dance , she refuses, until the slow songs start playing. I dance with her , feel her out,.she kinds of freak out.. In fact i tried to kiss her , she pushes me away.. Boy was I upset,. I was about to leave her dun ass ,, boring ass girl.. But I know , I just meet her family and that would be rude. So,, I ride it out and I spend most of the night dancing  with the other girl.. and by myself when the girl leaves with her friends.. I finally, decide its time to go,, I ask her if there any other place she would like to go,, Of course she says,, Whatever you like? So , I take her to Pacific Beach . Mission Beach.. and we take a romantic walk,, and again I try to kiss her and again I rebuffed. Yup.. I decide,, this is it.. She tries to explain. that she;s a old fashion girl and all but being this Stud,, a playboy,. My pride couldn't take it. So , I take her home.. Before we leave,, I say good bye,, and guess what she imitates the kiss, but guess what ,, it was nothing,. no feelings , no spark,, maybe because I was upset from the two earlier kissing attempts.. But , we say our good byes. She tells me.. call me. I don't.. she goes on vacation.. And I go on my skirt chasing spree,, In due time we break up,,, Her friends tell me I'm a jerk,, because I drop her with no explanation.. But , I that's how I was.. I felt like , if i was done with you. I would be done.. I did talk to her once o the phone and basically told her I wasn't interested and that your too old fashion and boring for me.. She said,, your mad because I didn't sleep with you like your other girls.. Yea, I said,, My rep.. huh.? She said yeah people told me about you , but i thought it was just rumors.. Yea,, fuck you bitch,, your a grown women who;s afraid of your own shadow,, I mean I kiss you twice and you practically wrestle me to the ground.. then at the end of the date you want to make out ? Yea,, i don't need that shit... I mean , I have opportunities.. Ok.. well enough said huh? we break up ,, and I begin dating another girl.. who smoke , drank, cursed and wanted as much or more attention than me.. Needless to say.. that dating scene didn't last too long.. But that's the phase I was in,, cocky , conceited , and felt like women were like trophy's.. seek and conquer and go on.. this went on for years until I met my soul mate and love of my life.. because of those lonely dating years.. I cherish my wife.. and she doesn't like my past and what i did,. But she realizes that I was young and dumb , careless and carefree.. I was searching for my identity and purpose , which finally arrived the day I got married May 13, 1993- actually Mothers day..back then.. Until the next story.. Take care and appreciate life , even the things you did wrong.. Its all a phase and a journey we all make ... The SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @2011..