What ruins relationships? Inspired by life experiences..

What ruins relationships? Inspired by Life experiences..
  This is a lifelong question  we all wonder about , but I really simple.. Its taking people for granted, thinking they will support you no matter what? But to be honest, when you let yourself go,, or fail to do the little things in life,, ruins your love,, like,,, just taking care of business, like making sure food is ready when loved ones get home , or is the house clean,, or do u take care of errands the wifey left you to do,, another thing,
 No respect for others stuff..when a guy loves his car, that's his girl, that's is babe , that's his passion,, Especially if its his dream car or ride,, don't mess with it,, I know some guys don't allow anyone to eat in their car.. not me,, I get hungry every 2 hours so theres no way I would not allow people to eat in my car,, and hell if they spill or make a mess, its ok, that why we have car products and car wash places or detail shops,,, but scratching , or keying a car is horrible no matter what? I mean if you want to get even with a car loving guy,, screw with his car.. !!
 ok,., what else ruins relationships,? Its you the girl.. if your too nice , a pushover,, you will get mistreated and probably left behind,, why? Most men love challenges, even when they are married, if they have concerns about you,, then the passion will burn longer,, you have to make the man feel like they have a Catch.. so to speak.. don't be easy girls,, and for guys it runs the same way,, if your hen pecked or let woman run all over you, then you will be easily forgotten,, sad but true, a little conflict or drama keeps the passions going,..
 You know what else ruins relationships,, insecurities, yes, if your so controlling and having doubts , those impulses or demands will chase men and women away, nothing more irritating than a over controlling wife or husband,, in addition , jealousy,, really people,,if you really feel connected to your loved one, you shouldn't have to worry about flirting , or what,, because we all flirt at one time or another, but if you believe in your union,, then you shouldn't have to worry, and besides, married or not, no one should own you , if you know what I mean,, I mean, if its meant to be, than don't worry,, life works in mysterious ways, and you just take one day at a time,, sure, losing someone , anyone is devastating, when your young or old,, But as you get older, you realize, happiness is hard to come by, and when you have something special, you embrace it and cherish it.. Life is too short and complicated to deal with silly feelings like jealousy , insecurity or self doubt.. release those demons, because today is a wonderful day to be alive and its a wonderful thing to cherish.. If you value something than take care of it an if you love yourself, don't give in to those feelings that don't help you, Think about being positive and happy,, and go for it,, Relationships die because of neglect or lack of respect,, and lack of passion,,,Lastly fear.. if your afraid of losing someone and have feelings of insecurity and jealousy,, most likely you own self doubts will overcome your relationship and once that happens it hards to bring back that passion,, But like anything in life,, you can fix anything,, if theirs anything left,, but like a horrible accident , if theirs nothing left,, ? what can you do?  Nothing,, its like love, if its been destroyed or has gone away.. then theres nothing you can do, except look for new love.. and we all know,, that can be scary and adventurous as keeping the one you have now,, But people are people and often times , we do because it feels right and it meant to be,, Destiny,, fate,, belief,, those are all the words a lot of dreamers , idealist , positive go getter's believe in,. They don't take hardships as the  final case,, they look at the big picture, because life is along process with many chapters and adventures to live through.. Finding true happiness is something we all want , it just depends what happiness means to each of us,,?
Money
stability
family success
career success
health
wisdom
knowledge
accomplishments
fate..

Some of us want it all , some just a few others , maybe you have other definitions of happiness , but whatever you want its all the same,,, To achieve those things,, you have to take care of yourself and that special someone,, because, that true happiness we all yearn for , maybe harder than to have than you can imagine.. Can you imagine a life without hope or passion,, that sounds lonely,, I look at life as adventure and journey , that needs to be addressed and challenged.. Not cursed at or be wary of.. The tougher things are, the more appreciative you are when you finally get them..
What ruins relationships??? No respect for one another, no communication, no passion , no hope .. if all these happen,, its over,, and its better to let go,, then to suffer.. but to each is own.. but no one is to blame than yourself,, happiness starts with you and if your not happy how can you share love with others.. You must possess love in order to say it or share it!!!
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