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Friday, May 9, 2014

My 21st Wedding Annersary . Inspired by someone I know...

My 21st Wedding Anniversary . Inspired by someone I know..
  Wow.. How quickly time flies.. Its now 21 years and counting, I think the most amazing thing is how amazing anyone could stand me for 21 years.. Either they are crazy or half blind.. or truly in love .. you know the old saying love is blind.. and to be honest its true.. I mean.. we all have hang ups , issues , quirks.. whatever, but your partner , deals with them.. If they forgive an forget that's how you survive a marriage , but if you cant' its a struggle.. Thank goodness <my wife forgives , maybe not forget , but that's her protection mechanism so she doesn't get hurt. But in life I realized,, even you most loved ones or so called best friends will hurt and abuse you.. and you know something , if someone really loves you they are blunt and say and do things that are for reals and hurtful..Because they want you to see the light or the weakness to your ways.. As for me.. I have many weaknesses , I love to have attention, I love to be around people and I love to talk,, and many times all the time, that makes some people happy and other jealous and envious,,But you know something, It doesn't matter what others think, because unless they are paying me a check or paying my bills, Their opinions , are like assholes.. Everyone has one , and they all stink.. hehe. But anyways. back to my tribute to my wife. She has been the most influential person in my life. When I was dating back on the day . I dated anything that can move and dance and looked great in a mini skirt and such.. and spent my pay checks like running water left on.. I was working for dates than saving for the future. But when my wife came into my life,, She changed my outlook=, my perspective , my desires in life. and after all these years I have 2 wonderful boys and a beautiful home and my dream car and my dream career. I'm part of a team that looks after me and encourages me when I get little nervous or concerned about things. don't we all. But its my wife that is my rock, my foundation , my true lady in my life. I want to live the rest of my life with her, not some wanna be actress or Barbie doll looking woman that should realize , those days are gone. But to each is own, I mean if people want to be a spectacle of themselves at conservative events. to each is own. But I know I'm better than that , I'm not ashamed I'm a middle age man that has served over 20 years of Military service . I was schooled and humbled by the experience , but through it all , it was my truly great wife that helped me get through those years and helping me deal with our times , right now.. To My wife, I'm so thankful we met and married and raised some of the greatest kids ever. My home , my life , my friends my passions are all revolving around my wife, If not for her , I would take on things I thought I could ever take on. But her support and her critical views are always stimulating to my own insights and ideas. I know now more than ever. That my wife is my everything and anyone else are just distractions or useless desires that wont do anything but destroy you. My true love , my true calling is wrapped around my wife and family and anything else doesn't matter . and because I think that way.. I feel that's why we have been married for a wonderful 21 years and counting.. I love you babes.. and I see  long future and we will overcome all as we grow old.. To my rock , my foundation.. I thank you for supporting and loving me and together we  are going to make our families lives a productive and loving one!!
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2014..

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