Happiness is... inspired by life events..

Happiness is ..Inspired by life events..

     Happiness is... well to me its having peace of mind? Ok what does that mean?  Who has peace of mind with all the madness and craziness going on.. Internet . social media, work. kids.. life.. Its maddening if you let it happen to you.. If anything I learNed that your true real friends are the ones you touch , you feel and you see often, Not face book or what.. I mean people in your lives,, wheTHERits 5- or 100 hundred people.. if you connect with them you have a friend.. I know the past months i realized the hard way who are the real true Friends that speak the truth and tell you whats up? I mean its tough enough to deal with life , to have issues come into play..
   ok,, when it comes to friendships and relationships, you have to take time to be there or not,, what do i mean? I mean people need space, some more than others,, others can survive doing alot of things on their own.. Myself,, I like to alone,, so to speak. when I write , or read or just think.. I have done alot of that lately,, thinking about life, death , the meaning of life, the purpose of my existence? I know those are deep thoughts and no matter how many times I think about it..I ca come up with so many different ideas and thoughts and the same goes if you ask people, Some will say having material things or accomplishing things in life, others say family life,, other say their bodies and minds their relationship to God.. In my own reflection,, I've become closer to God and I ask for strength and power , because life is so stressful. I still have kids to grow up and teach them how to be men and how to treat women. As for women or people treat everyone how you want to be treated,, easier said then done.. Its like anyone can say I love you, but can you show me ,like do the little things . ask hows work, ask how I'm feeling, do you want something to drink or eat.. or you want a massage? Do you want to talk? In other words be there, alot of us guys think , by providing material things,, thats good enough but women want to feel your love your attention your thoughts,, and asking simple questions can show them that.. but alot of men including myself let that macho alpha male take over the one that feels they don't need to compromise , that don't need to bow down to women,, Its a tough thought for us tough macho guys that think ,, if we just be ourselves,, we think its good enough,, But women want strong calm and steady people to help them deal with their emotional ups and downs. in life if you can provide that stability with relationship's or friendships you will benefit greatly,, No ones likes a moody , needy , confused person,,, They want a confident, happy and outgoing person, I mean think about it.. I rather be a smiling cool person, then a moody sad person,, Its just human nature.. Thus Happiness is what you want it to be, Happiness is a state of mind.. Everyday you must tell yourself I'm going to be happy no matter what happens. I'm going to ignore sad thoughts or memories,, I;m going to be happy !! Happiness is right now,, Enjoy what your doing.. and don't worry about tommorow,, Because if you neglect today's needs and wants,, tomorrow will be affected or worse case wont come. I have sen life and death and its haunting knowing , your time or our time is coming to the end,. That's why we party or work out or enjoy all activities because one day,, its game over,,, and that's scary, Live for today ,, because tomorrow may not come,, Be happy and don't worry,, Happiness is whatever your doing and whatever make you happy , shopping . eating, dancing , working out.. whatever makes you happy do it!!
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