Why Men struggle with relationships. Based on life experiences

Why Men sruggle with relationships. Based on life experiences..
   Why Men struggle with relationships..?? Its actually a very hard question to answer in a blog or one sitting but I will try based on my own personal experience.
  First of all men are too logical , to reasonable almost too calculating , for me its my military time , that teaches you or brain washes you into thinking everything has a book or manual , or standards of operations to follow to solove anything.. But like life or love or affairs of the heart.. Those mind sets dont work.. I found that trying to solve things in a systematic thing with women is useless,, Women in general are very emotional beings  they love to flirted with they love attention , they love being loved.. But once you start taking them for granted or you think everything is ok.. That's where the issues happen, and if you have a big ego,, like me then you fail to recognize her screams for help.. We think as ego manaiacs,, everything will work it self out,, But i have found it doesn't and that's the sad part.. Even though you have a long relationship with anyone,, it can turn in a second, a minute in a month in a year and once that love is gone.. its so hard to regain,, I know,, I have tried with many of my ex's and its all the same.. They say your good guy but.. and then its over.. the good guy nice guy shit never turns out well.. They want want a guy that takes chance, that argues, and is not afraid of losing her or him.. Its a tough frame of mind to think , but that's what women want. they want a man that i strong minded, ambitious and not confident,, if you lack all of them.. its really over and if you struggle with any of them,. it can still be a long road to regain love.. For me. I let Pride , ego,, and Self preservation take over... I let emotions rule over whats really needed to make a relationship work, Maybe thats why I have had many relationships in my life,, heck in high school  i changed girlfriends as many times I changed my shoes,, haha, but for reals,, its tougher in today's social media days and the sign of the times,, people see more people than the old days,, people forget about religion or the fairy tales about one love one life forever.. That's why you see so many separations and divorces,, people especially women are more independent , more out going and more demanding,, Alot of men,, including myself can or wont accept that,, Call me a male chauvenist pig, a hypocrite,, or what,, But the old days is still my mind set,, its still how o think,, Yes I may be middle age , but I still think and act like a 20 year old? Good or bad..Well My idol Muhammad Ali said if your 50 and still have the same mind set as a 20 year old,, you wasted 30 years pf ones life.. Well .perhaps I have,, Perhaps I still living the young mans game.. the young looking clothes, the hair styles , the muscle cars,, the happy go lucky attitude,, wrong or right .. Its what I am.. I am what I am.. and if my wife , or friends or family think other wise,, .. then just leave me alone,.. I mean.. Change is something a person must commit too,, as for me.. I have been hurt by too many women to really commit to another for life.. I mean.. It seems whatever I say or do,, its never enough,, Men know that women can be bitches and naggers , and most men give in, to it,, letting their true selves be buried. For me.. if a women really or a man really loves their partner they let them be whoever they are, and enjoy life .. Now if they need time away ,, so be it,, But in most cases,, time away from someone you love usually heals the wounds and pains,, but restarting,, is the hard part,, because we are human,, we cant forget , we cant really forgive and we cant really let people be who they are.. The problem men have with women is that they cant enjoy the things they love to do without feeling guilty, like buying guns.. or things for their muscle cars. or video games,, men have their toys,, and what they like to do,, Men, don't like shopping with women, looking at lip sticks,, and sexy clothes.. might be ok once in awhile but not all the time.. ?I I know that sounds selfish,, but as men get older,, they understand time is flying by and wasting time is something they don't want to do,, If a women doesn't want me, then go on your way,!!, and if you have to criticize me,.. for the way I am.. then for reals.. go away,!!, and dont go away angry just go away. Men.. struggle because they don't want to talk about their feelings,, it makes them feel inferior insecure,, and once a man cries about a women.. then that women has too much control on that man,,and that man needs to find himself again,!! because no women is worth being unhappy or depressed for more than a day. ?!?!For me.. true love involves unconditional expectations and respect and trust, one those things are broken. the miscommunication , the mistrust and lack of respect will lead to arguments , mean words and ultimately , break up , separation and divorce.. Its tough to swallow. especially if you have tons of pride,, but living in denial is worst then living a lie or cheating. because when one lives in denial,, your denying both parties to move on and be happy. That's why men struggle , in relationships, they want to do the thing , even though it may not be with the right person, !??!The kids, their futures,, yea,, true , but why live a lie,?? why make a charade out of marriage,,?? Just going through the motions is bull shit,, and any man or women who reads this, if your living a lie in a marriage, then have the strength to move on and carry on..Because life is too short to dwell or deny reality. My favorite motto is "  the tragedy of life is not how short it is, but how late we begin to live! The moral to this blog blog,, is. Men, take care of your special someone, talk, argue , discuss and don't let things alone.. because based on my own experience , letting things to be unresolved will lead to resentment , hatred, break up and seperation and its hurts more than anything in life next to having your mom die.. Its the most heartbreaking and life changing experience to deal with, but a true man deals with it and lives with it and put asides his insecurities and pride in order to live a truly meaningful life. But many men including myself struggle with those issues and thats the toughest thing to realize with todays men..??!?!Until next time,,, Be happy and enjoy each day!!
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