How Come the ones closest to you , hurt us the most ? Inspired by my dear friend PUA..

How come the ones closest to you , hurt you the most?
 This is a question of the ages. Here's my take, The ones closest to you knows what buttons to push , they feel comfortable because they have opened up and of course you did too. But why do they take advantage of our kindness our openness our vulnerability. Simple , because they can, it has become so easy to tell whats up that many times they become too comfortable and with that blunt , truthful statements are more hurtful. Am I right? When a stranger or a nobody you don't like , says something blunt or truthful , we fight back and defend ourselves as ,. They don't know me,, screw them jerk offs. But when a loved one or close friend says the similar things we take it to heart! We all do , including myself,, human nature , ego , other emotional issues. My advice to everyone , including myself is... Take everything as a grain of salt.. We all know we often say hurtful things when we are in the heat of the moment. We all do things out of anger or lack of patience. We are just human, we all have issues , but when it comes to friends,, lets face it , true friends are really hard to find. I mean if you can count close Friends on one hand or even two , you are truly blessed.  Its a shame some of our Friends take advantage of our kindness or sweetness. Its a shame , alot of people are not true or just plain phony. We know some Friends just use us because its convenient , while others use us because they are manipulators and love using the nice people of this world. I know many times I would like to become like them.. But you know what? That's what those jerks want , so I refuse to be like them. I will be my laid back  person that respects people and treat people as equals.. I mean I wont be a push over , but I wont be a jerk off because alot of people treat me that way.
 My destiny is happiness , togetherness peacefulness , and I know the true friends , classmates, shipmates , co workers,, will appreciate what i have to give and share. I love to write and I hope and pray that my fb friends around the world enjoy my efforts , but it doesn't matter if you do, I'm enjoy sharing my thoughts ideas,opinions and experiences so that you can laugh, take notice , be entertained or simply be informed about things you have no time researching. I like to think I'm your quick info center , the one that breaks it down in simple terms so you can use it or not.. I hope my friends that are considering changes in your personality , are you sure? Because , changing because other jerk offs make you angry is not the way. Everyone changes , but change because its better suits you than a reaction to people who are rude , crude and lewd. The ones we love seem to hurt us the most , but as a true friend or lover , we take it and work with it, human emotions is a hard thing to understand. Because it happens so quick and unexpected , put upon further review, just chill out , soak you feet, read a book, listen to some Hawaiian music,, and think about good times and true friends,, That will calm you down,, and forget about those fools that treat you so unfair,, They don't know how precious you are until you leave them.. BE TRUE TO THOSE WHO ARE TRUE TO YOU.. IS MY GREATEST ADVICE TO ALL MY TRUE FRIENDS.. AND KARMA --- I TRULY BELIEVE WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND.. UNTIL MY NEXT ADVICE COLUMN.. TAKE CARE.. THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2011