Marriage - I do... it's more like I will!! Inspired by family members..

Marrriage - I do .. its more like I will!! Inspired by family _Jen and Ken..
 The " M" word. It's the most misunderstood, taken for granted and precious thing you can ever say or do in life. I always advise family and friends that Marriage is no joke. Marriage is more than I do,, its more like I will!! I will be faithful , I will be your lover , your friend. I will stay with you for better or for worse. I mean its a heavy deal. Folks , paying for a house or car , or vacation, or being in the military or what is still no comparison to the Marriage deal.
 Marriage is a union , a binding of thoughts , ideas, ideals, dreams. fears, it's that bond you develop when you found someone that clicks with you. You know the deal. when they finish sentences before you do, or when you say the same things at the same time. Or better yet you think the same thing at the same time. It's one of the key signs that their is a connection. For me, Marriage was always a fearful thing, I mean I love women , and I love to party , and for me to settle down was a shock to family and friends, but I knew even before I met my future wife , she was the one. I know it sounds corny or even hollywoodish, but I just knew, When it is said and done I realized my hunches were correct. But don't get me wrong Marriage is hard work.
 For example Like a garden, you need to tend to the weeds or make sure the fertilizers and watering is being done, in other words you don't neglect things. Marriage is a daily tasking.. If you argue , settle it fast , this silent treatment or yelling treatment doesn't work, it just creates resentment , anger. People are fragile , we get hurt so easily or offended. We let our egos interfere with what made us fall for one another. Don't let this happen, be the better man or woman.. We all know human emotions when lit are the most volatile feelings on this earth,. its called the heat of passion, whether it's arguing or feeling a closeness to someone who is listening , when people fight , and do the silent treatment or take off , that's when vulnerability , temptation takes over. My advice , to resist temptation you avoid the situation. That's pure and simple.. Guys , when drunk , are suckers , and women who do the same can do the same.. equality? No, more like equal opportunity destroyers.
 My greatest advice about marriage is do the simple things , take care of the little things, like making sure you make your bed, you lowering the lid after using it, Keep the toothpaste covered or wiping feet , or leaving shoes and stuff around. Those things if left unchecked can lead to resentment , anger and even arguments. remember we all have our cycles.. even men,, We need to know when they are occurring and adjust. If anything Marriage is constant adjustments , compromises and patience with out it , your doomed to failure..
In other words marriage is I will adjust , I will submit , I will deal with , I will overcome , I will be strong. I will be there! I will work things out. Marriage is and always be the hardest thing to do in life. Now throw kids in there and heaven forbid if the kids have health issues, marriage can be burden , a head ache , a heart breaker.. a Life changing event. My advice don't do it! Until you do what you need to do , like finish your college , or training , save alot of money , get that career , job deal going and most of all , find that special someone that can deal with you. The Marriage license is like no other license , it last forever and getting out of it can be costly , painful and life changing. Marriage is more than I do! its I will.... Until the next story.. Take care!! THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2011