Anything worth having - takes alot of work- Inspired by someone I knew..

Anything worth having - takes a lot of work - Inspired by someone I knew..
  In life , anything worth having takes a lot of work. If its difficult than its worth having. I know that's so true, whether its relationships , friendships or goals. If you work it out and stick it out you will bear the fruits of your endeavors.. Like my wife, she made me work for her love and I was so overjoyed when we finally dated and eventually married. Its strange how men think ? At times men , forget how hard it was to win someones love, or save up money for the dream house and dream car,, Men,, just naturally take things for granted and only when they almost lose everything , is when men wake up , but sometimes the damage one man does to a loving woman , can be so much that .. too much damage cant be repaired. In other words you run out of second or third chances.. But a lot of men ,, like to feel good, and when they do that , they neglect family and such,, But like life,, sometimes,, you need to be broken down to get back up.. and that's the true character of a man. A true man, in the heat of  battle or stress, rises up from that and fights for what he believes in.. A lot of times , men fight for the wrong thing. But having integrity and self pride in being a true man. Say what you mean and do it.. is one of the terms I learned from a dear friend and I want to thank them for that,, We are all humans and we all yearn for human acceptance and love,, a lot of us want too much , like myself , and that can be destructive to a family, and I learned my lesson,, But like life,, its a journey it a process , its living. No one is immune to pain and suffering , or making bad decisions. But its the person that realizes their mistakes and corrects them. Its the ones that make the same ones over and over and not acknowledging their wrong doings.. That's where ethics and morals come into play. Those that have it, feel it and become successful in relationships , friendships and career. One must understand oneself and what they are before they can relate and be part of a family , friendship or community. The others , well you see the news events of killings and bombings and other horrible events. Those people lost touch with reality and life and their choices to destroy others is what they feel is their destiny or manifesto,, How wrong they are ? But we all have to reach out to those in need, because the life you save maybe yourself,. If you really call yourself a friend , you reach out to those in despair and asking for advice or a caring ear. We all cant solve problems on your own, but we all can care and love one another and have understanding and perspective .. The only way to do that is to listen to other points of view and carry them in your heart and mind.. Some people hear you , and others just listen.. The ones that hear you are the ones that care and the ones just passively listening are the ones that are just in it for their own good.. Check it out next time you speak with someone , and they are constantly interrupting you or asking you to repeat things..
  Anything in life that's worth having, takes a lot of work,, and that's the way life is supposed to be,, You have to pay your dues , so to speak in order to enjoy the fruits of your work.. For me loving relationships with my family and friends and enjoying the benefits of strong bonds that many people pray for .. My benefits from the military has been awesome and all those lonely and stressful years in the navy.. make it all worth it now.. I'm living each day as it may be my last ad I enjoy being around people that make me happy and I love my life and how its going!! I wish all of you to have that state of mind , that embrace today , because it is indeed a gift,, that's why they call it the  'PRESENT" ,, Enjoy and be happy.. Its a simple motto and smile and share happiness , to make someone happy even for a moment is the greatest gift you can give to anyone , anytime , anywhere!!
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