True friends .inspired by life events

True Friends , Inspired by life events ..
Well guys and gals another blog about life events .. ok first off my definition of a true friend is simple ..True friend accepts you for what you exhausting are ! For example if your
Moody or have a hard ass attitude , it’s ok it what you are .. like for myself I’m a friendly , flirty eye guy that makes people smile ,, But when I get pissed off  I’m the biggest meanest ass hole . When I Get into a fight physical or verbal, it can be brutal . It’s just the way I am , I fight to win no matter the cost..The problem with that you hurt people physically mentally and emotionally . I have no issues attracting friendship from males or females , my issue is keeping friends ,My best friend since grade  school tells me your exhausting , and overly dramatic and too attention seeking .. Maybe that’s why I don’t have many close friends ,, Because it takes patience , understanding and stamina to be my friend . But if I’m truly your friend you have a protective caring person with a lot of passion for life . But I get very upset when betrayed ., like if you say your a friend it’s not cool to say spread rumors about my character or what !! I mean just because I act a certain way you have to say he’s gay and he’s other friends are gay ,, Or when you think your cool and then they accuse you of wrongdoing and what sucks all companies including the military they believe the women .!Thats why men are on edge these days if your too friendly , sexual harassment charge and if you don’t they say he’s gay ,, What the fuck is a guy or girl to do ? That’s not a true friend if you have issue With someone at work or school you go up to them and tell them , that’s what a true friends do , not report them or accuse them or spread gossip . That is betrayal .. I mean I understand we are emotional beings , we get upset we get depressed we get emotional but true friends talk it out .. True friends enjoy through good times and bad because we all know life is a roller coaster you have your ups and downs ..it’s the true friend that takes the time to be there when you need them and gives you the space to deal with things or let you enjoy your hobbies without feeling I need to be with them all the time ! True friends are authentic  they are not phony with one another ..In other words they show you who they really are .. and accept you for that .. When you get to know someone . About their beliefs or ideas mesh with you ,, that’s how your acquaintance becomes a friend and leads to true friend when your comfortable to be yourself and be who your really are ..That’s when you have a true friend and when a friend does something to hurt you , you talk it out . But it seems in today’s world people want to ruin you or hurt you because you assumed things about them .. One thing I learned in life is you don’t play with peoples emotions don’t say shit unless you Mean it , Unless your joking and playing along but when you say things like I’m your friend in time of need and because I’m busy you suddenly take my kindness and thought as bull shit , is no way to be .. One thing is clear with true friends they back you up no matter what ! They protect you and make you look in the best light ! But when a so called friend betrays you , its hard to forgive I know by experience it’s hard to forgive someone it may never come so be careful with your friends , just like life friends are fragile you can go from love to hate in a moment and the thing with emotional damage it’s hard to heal because it’s like a scar , sure it heals but it can reopen and often times hurts more because of  the history of pain . Life is too short to feel guilty or ashamed ,, You have to move on and when someone betrays you and accuses you of things that are not true .. chances are that friendship is over and affects both parties in their future friendships or relationships ,,it screws with you because your less trustful with people your less loving , it sucks because that person your with didn’t hurt you but we often punish those that are close to us .. But those true friends understands your pain and helps you get through life .Life is stressful
Enough not to have phony inauthentic friends that use you for their own needs . I know everyone using people for something but when someone is needy and impatient , selfish user that’s the pain that’s hard to forgive ,, True friends builds bonds builds love by doing things for them its like money in the bank the more good deeds you do ,, your building a friendship that is strong .. and when the tough times come you have the good deeds built in your mind .. The mind controls everything so when a guy or girl builds these good deeds you my friend have the bonds of true friendship ,,true  friend's do things became they want to and not worried about pay back or keep tallies , true friends are enjoying the moment because life is full of moments when you have great moments with a friend , you want more moments .. Finding true friends are really a treasure and to my true friends I love you and I’m blessed when I need my true friends they are there because they want to ! Like I tell my true friends Be true to those that are true to You ‘ Until my next blog enjoy everyday’
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