Ok, What am I getting at? Well its called being wise with what you say and do? For example when dealing with anyone, always look for the good in people. I know its hard sometimes , but always smile and always be interested in what people have to say. By being focused and really listening, not just hearing things. We are all hearing things , but listening is really a skill. Often times alot of , all of us , think about what we want to say next then really listening to the other person Thus we have misunderstanding arguments, etc. because we often do or not do the things the person asked or requested. Its human nature to get your two cents in.. The problem is,, when something goes wrong , we first to point fingers and say "it wasn't my fault" But I believe if you don't understand directions of someone,, Just politely ask, to repeat the directions. My take is people don't ask, because of ego, and embarrassment. But think about it.. How embarrassing it is , when you don't know what to do, or do the wrong thing or go to the wrong place.. Its something we all need to work on and get better. In life , that's all we can do , is get better. We should look to get better every day , every minute and don't allow ego and image hinder our progress. No one knows everything and everybody. We all need each other to get along in this world. We have mechanics, we have dentists, and doctors, accountants , lawyers , police , judges , etc to take care of things we cant possibly know. We are all in the same game and we all need to play. But alot of us think , we are above the law, above reproach. above the rim.. But we all must realize this is a team effort life, and the more you use the team , the better you will be in achieving your life's goals and dreams.. For me. My life is my wife and kids,, and though at times they piss me off, I know they have been loyal and good to me beyond question. I know we all have our ups and downs in life and those that recover quickly re better ADAPTED to life. Life is never the same and we all have to deal with life our own way. But My word of wisdom or lesson of today is" Be wise in what you say and do , and learn to listen to people and be really interested and focused on people, I realize when I look at people they are more engaged in conversation and are more apt to help you or go that extra mile. Why? Because you rarely see people do that these days, its a lost art in this digital , technical , email , texting world.. Go out and really greet people. smile and say good morning and see how different life and people treat you.. Be sincere and real !
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