Life is about making choices.. inspired by my friend Steve..

Life is about making Choices..Inspired by friend Steve
  Life is one of the most uncontrollable things . I mean we can control our emotions or how we feel , at least we think we can, But life is different every day. We contend with Traffic . accidents , weather,, mother nature , like earth quakes , fires. heavy rains,. snow for some of us. But making daily decisions is always a stressor. what to wear? , where to go ? what to eat ?, Who to make friends with? I know alot of us want to be happy , do what we like and share those things with our face book friends. I think that's one of the greatest things created was face book, I mean we get to stay in touch at our own terms .. What do I mean? Well we post things and our friends can either comment , delete or what at any time of the day and night. You cant do that with phone calls, I know theres nothing like talking to someone , but texting , emailing and face booking is the modern day tool that brings people together.
 I often laugh at the many sarcastic remarks and the happy thoughts , the proud parents , the frustrated singles , the upset married couples. The newly weds , the new parents , its a cool scene. It makes me recall those days when I was upset , or confused or just depressed. Yes, no matter who you are depression happens to everyone. Its how you respond to it.. Me, I fight it and I do things that make me happy, punching a bag, doing my pop lock moves , listening to music,. or simply writing. To me,. writing is a therapy and I do it to share my many thoughts that seem to flow in my head. At times , I have so many ideas and thoughts its hard for me to sleep, so I get up and I start writing. it doesn't matter what subject, life experience,. news events,, etc.. I choose to write and many times helps me make decisions.
 In life , we often have to choose career or whats best for you, I know when I chose to join the Navy , it was because I needed a change.. The fact the life long job I wanted , finally hired me.. But guess what? I was like 2 or 3 weeks into Boot camp.. I was stuck,, so to speak,, But i fulfilled my contract and decided to stay Navy. i had to make many decisions regarding duty stations , job assignments,. etc but I just trusted what i wanted and  what I wanted to accomplish. For me. I want to make myself and family happy, friends are important , but it those people that mean the most to you that makes life worthwhile.. I know their are people who only like you because you look good , or sexy or what , or you do things for them.. But for me.. a friend is someone that lets you choose what you want and together you live life , I know I have been selfish regarding friendship girl or boy , but that's part of growing up. We all are selfish, who doesn't want their best friend with them forever, but we all know we all have paths to follow or choices to make.. Its what makes life go.. So for those out there , especially Steve, decide what do you want , is the places you were given fit your needs and wants and most of all , Are you ready for change. I know after high school and growing up in San Diego, I wanted to see the world.. I was away from SD for a long time.But I got to see many places and meet many wonderful people.. I made a choice and I am very happy I had the strength and wisdom to overcome any fears or confusions about the future.. The Future is yours , you need to embrace it and make choices that will enhance your life.. Until my next story. Take Care !! THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2011