First off, I'm not a great writer or a deep thinker , I;m just a girl who likes to have fun, I was searching through my friends list,, no name , I will protect their identity. But anyways, I came across this interesting dude, I mean he had alot going for him, Fed Govt work, Likes dancing , writing , etc. At first I was hesitant and then i went for it,. At first he was hesitant because he said that he normally doesn't accept friendships from people he doesn't really know. But he did and wow,, I was or still am awed.
This guy is funny , sensitive maybe too much, he has child like qualities , for example he's very playful with words or comments, he's also impulsive and reckless with his thoughts and emotions and that's where I see at times real or face book friends get confused. For me nothing beats real true life , I see you every day friends, Those are the ones you hang out with , feel comfortable etc. But the face book ones, lets be honest , who really knows what any of us is thinking,.WE MAKE COMMENTS.. often times as jokes or what , but the other party interprets it differently, and to me that's the flaw in this system , it really display the real deal of ones intention. One may read something and it means a totally different meaning. We also know depending on our moods at the time , when we read something , we often takes things too literal or what. That's where the disconnect happens and that's where you see posts like , I'm cleaning out my friends list, or fa wk those people who don't understand me ,, or Don't disrespect me etc , etc. I;m not saying I have better ways to make face book better, We all have seen or heard stories about how it can ruin lives and relationships. But I also see how a person like the one I'm talking about likes to share his talents and skills to his friends. i mean this guy has a YouTube account with his pop lock / break dancing , he has martial arts demos, etc.. I love it , I think it's cool someone is willing to take the time and effort to pt those things for people to see. I'm being honest , he's a talented dude, I can call friend, yea it's only been a few days , but the comments and advice he has given me has been very important to me,, For me, getting advice from guys or this guy is very special, he's a very protective guy when it comes to friends , I like that , we often see guys or girls that when a friend does something harmful , we let it go.. But a true , true friend lets someone know,, Hey , wake up , that's not right, or I respect you I wouldn't put you in a bad spotlight. But it seems , well in my life , I get alot of misunderstandings and confusion, and in time I will figure it out , but I'm glad I have real daily I get to see friends and the Internet space friends I can turn to, for advice , inspiration , jokes, entertainment. etc. I hope my friend , no name given , understands my position and just goes with it for now,, Its like the old saying time heals all wounds , or if they really like you , they will come back,, or was that if they love you , they will come back.. Well you get the idea, making the connection to me means having a friend that cares , loves you as you are , and makes comments or advice that is going to help each other. A face book friend is someone that you turn to when the real friend is not around and it's convenient , get on your lap top , or what phone for some of us and we can connect. I love my face book friends and I really enjoy this guys comedy , spirit , wisdom , talent and he's passion for life and his face book friends, Truly an original and someone I can call a true friend.. take care and Keep smiling.. Friends are so special in our lives and I'm glad I have one that understands me and respects my wishes..Inspired story for .. THE SOURCE PRODCUTIONS@ 2011
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