Life Lessons .. Inspired by my new friends..

Life Lessons . Inspired by my new friends...

    The past 3 months I have found 2 of the best friends , connections I have ever had in my life,, Forget about the separation of ages between us we just connect. For whatever reason , we get along.. Despite the goofiness and strange behaviour. One thing is certain .. We have unconditional love , respect , and patience with one another. I mean at times we may get frustrated with one another and say mean or off the wall comments. But guess what? We laugh it off. We are two of kind.. how about 3 of a kind. Yes, its possible to be so connected to 2 people. Why because we just let ourselves go.. We make jokes , we laugh with each other instead of at each other. Its a special bond. Its nice to be able to say or do anything without feeling any shame or doubt. Its a cool feeling to have and I love it. But I noticed at the work place , not everyone is rooting for you. Its like the old saying everyone wants you to do well, but not better than them. But those are haters and to be honest I don't have the time or inclination to deal with those people,, They was i see it they are miserable because they choose to be. They are insecure because they let the be that way. Its hard to stop a mind set if you let it sink in. For Me, I like to be positive like my blood type.. Because people feed off and love motivating and inspiring people, well people that are secure in their lives and striving to be their best. For me, happiness is striving and improving and being your best. Anytime all the time. I always look forward to each day because I have seen death and destruction I have been on ships were people have died or killed themselves, its not a good vibe , but I survived and kept going... Am I sad for their families , of course I am.. But I also realize its not my fault , for many years  I had survivors guilt.. because it could of been me or should of been ME? It should of been me? But I realize everything happens for a reason , the pain , the misery , the happiness , the joy.. It has a purpose and I let each day and each event play itself out. I used to stress out about meeting people,, I have this feeling that they will tire of me ,, Guess what? Its a self fulfilling prophecy. If you think anything.. You can make it happened,, The mind follows what your body or heart wants. One thing is for sure my friends have taught me to stay positive and stay focused on your goals and aspirations. True friends let each other be themselves, no pretending or acting , like I said unconditional love.. Unselfish , deep respect and unlimited patience and understanding. It a rare deal to see that in friendship. That's why I feel blessed to have found these two cool friends. I feel good and appreciated. I learned that when your open and hones with people , most will return the favor, and those that don't, good riddance. I'm too old to deal with negativity or jealous people.I don't want it and I don't want to be around that vibe. Life is getting shorter for me.I'm looking for happiness ans togetherness with people that are positive and help me be my best. I know life is hard enough not to deal with such people. I found that when your around positive people you feel happy and inspired to do things and that energy is fantastic to feel. That's why I love my friends G and B.. They are one of a kind.. which makes us 3 of a kind.. 
 My moral is this, be yourself, be real and honest and you will receive the respect and love you deserve. and want.. Be true to those that are true to you.. Have a great day and smile, its amazing how thing will change in your life and how people will treat you.. Try it .. It will change your mood and how people treat you back.. 

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