True Friend .. Inspired by people I work with ..

True Friends . Inspired by people I work with ..
     I’m a DPS Officer at a Riverside casino .. I have been there almost a year and I have met quite a few people . Some that are characters and annoying and others that have become friends ..My coworkers are something else I mean I Work with Cowboys that are gun toting
 Anti establishment Trail Blazers that would be awesome to be with in a gun fight . I’ve learned so much from them about gun care , what kind of weapons they prefer and like to use . For me you should listen to all gun owners because they all have different perspectives about weapons systems and what to use under any conditions .
  But I have met others that are not in my Dept like the dealers when times are slow  I engage in talks and it’s interesting to hear about their life and times , one thing I found out is people like to talk . And if your a good listener and non judgement people will talk .. Some just like telling you things .one of my new found friend is a dealer no names because I realize people these days enjoy their privacy .but I will say this .. I have met good people and this one is really good . So generous and caring in fact maybe too caring .. because we all know people these days use one another if you let them but this person buys donuts for her coworkers . She’s invites them to eat dinner which included myself I mean I thought I was just a worker friend .. right just someone you talk to at work . But to consider someone to hang out is a  cool desl because now your choosing to be with people .. But sometimes I’m life you just click with people , you know what i mean ? It’s like you say or think similar things without trying ..!well that’s a cool feeling to relate to people .. Noe that I’m older I’m kind of picky with who I hang out with .. I just don’t hang out to kill time . I chill with people relate to .. Makes sense ? I’m a busy person with full time hours and I enjoy working out and I love my muscle car and gun collection .. Which takes up a lot of my time .. plus doing gardening and house cleaning my days are busy.. But I’m one of those types that like to keep busy.. Having hobbies and things to do helps me deal with the stresses of life . I feel people should have hobbies and share  your knowledge and times with people that may enjoy what you do !! That’s why I post videos of me dancing or doing martial arts or gun shooting .. I also enjoy posting my thoughts and experiences with my blogs.. 
   So my definition of a true friend is someone that is honest and caring ., Some one that doesn’t judge you or make you feel pressured .. sometimes feeling comfortable with people is the biggest key you have a friendship .. one thing a true friend does is don’t take things for granted or don’t appreciate what friends do .. It sounds so simple .. but when you do the little things like ask How they are or how they are feeling .. Just makes the day .. u know what I mean ? It’s the little things that count it shows you care and your important to them ! I know this sounds to corny but that’s what people look for when it comes to friendships.. Some have their face book friends and other have their hang out friends and some have their true friends ., Those are the ones your not obligated to call or text them every day ., Don’t pressure you to do things .. You know you have a true friends when you can csall them for a ride or text them for something .. True friends do things because they want to not because they feel they have too. People do or say things because they feel like their love and caring will be returned ! Makes sense ? Well I feel like I  found some good friends at the casino .. I try not to ask for help but if I  did too I feel like the friends I would turn to would help me out .. Like I said earlier I’m picky about who I hang out with .. I have to feel comfortable and safe .. Finding true friends are hard to find .. But my advice when you find people you’re comfortable with I suggest you keep them as friends ..To me sharing your interest and spending time with friends is what makes life wonderful .. There’s too much sadness and depression in the world ..’To have true friends that make you feel good is the true gift in life .. So to my hand full of true friends I hang out  I’m truly thankful and until my next blog .. Enjoy your life and be happy !
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