What ruins a friendship? Based on life events

What ruins a Friendship? Based on life events ..

   What ruins a friendship? Well first of all to me friendship is respect , its honoring your friend and having patience and undertanding. A true friend is there to help you like when MY friend's card didnt work at the car wash. I didnt hesitate to pay for it. Its wasnt done to earn trust or love, it was done to help him out and of course he paid me back buying lunches for me or what>
  Now to what ruins a freindship,, when a person takes a friend for granted ? What do I mean , is that you think or feel that person will always be there! I know we say it and believe it, but you shouldnt over use it or over stay your welcome. I mean you shouldnt take advanatge of your friends time, like texting or calling at crazy hours. Even if they say its ok.. maybe it is. but when it affects their sleep or rest thats not good, and when they decide to turn off phone or block your number i doesnt mean they dont like or lovr4wwe you anymore, it means Give me a break friend? I know I took advanatgae of my best friend at times when I call him to much .. I mean.. like my dearly departed mama said. Its different when your gorwn up and have family ommittmets.. Its funny how things come back ,, But anyways, being too needy can also hurt a frienship,, I mean as much as you want to help someone ,, you need to control your needs. But thats why frendships end because one or both parties are too needy , too possesive and too unpredicatable.. I mean when your wondering what the hell is going on?. Thats not healthy and it wears at your mind and heart,which in time finally causes one or both to run away , take a break or simply shut down all the way. I know in life its hard to live anyways , so to try to figure another human being out is already a complicated task. Friendships are special when you really find it. Its takes time to really develop a true froendship, but being honest and truthful and open is a start , and builds that foundation ,, but respect is very important to me, what do i mean Like not saying hurtful things , like oh i dreamed about anther guy,, what the heck is that ? Thats a slap in the face , or asking a guy out while in a car pool deal. I mean what the hell are you thinking? I mean totally disrepect? I mean what you trying to make me jealous ? If anything it proves your a very insecure person , and thinking I'm going to get angry about it,? nope why? But thats what a silly inmatire friend does? Maybe because they think they are all that? Based on life experience what ruins friendships the most is taking them for granted because in the end when someone feels used and abused they grow tired they become frustrated and angry and finally they just give up caring and that’s the death sentence to  friendships or relationships .. Not caring anymore kills anything ! Yea having true friends are so hard to find in this day and age of fake and phony people that only want people around that can help them . But then again we all use one another on social media , some entertain us , some inspire us , others make you think and some just are there .. whatever the case we all use one another  for whatever reason .. Its what life is about .. we all need one another for attention for recognition, for approval .. We are animals that likes to have people around , that’s why we seek companionship , it’s more fun to do things with people then doing things alone ! So get out there and enjoy your friends and try not to ruin friendships but we often do that’s why having true friends are truly rare !Until my next blog enjoy life ! 
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