My man is a complex man, a man of many moods and attitudes. At first , He may seem arrogant , loud and aggressive , but when you get to know him.. He's a loving caring and yes, sensitive man. I know he sounds too good to be true and to be honest , at times I think he is.. I mean when I least expect it , he does wonderful things, I just make hints and suggestions and the next thing you know he does it. Like replanting plants on our wonderful landscape, or repainting rooms or what. I think or suggest and he does..
But he also has a temper, especially when he feels deprived or mistreated. He likes to treat people like they treat him. If you treat him rude he can come back ruder? But that's his style,. Fight fire with fire,, He saying is, How do you take care of a man with a gun... With a bigger and powerful one.. haha. But anyways.. I love my man, at times I don't understand his moods, but that just him, I feel once you understand he is a moody guy.. creative guy, the better you can deal with him. But I know some folks are turned off by his demeanor and I must admit I get turned off at times. But then he comes up with funny faces or jokes to offset that. I know I spoil my man I mean A tricked out Truck and a Muscle car and all the clothes and shoes of his desires. But I love him and the fact he wears them or uses them well makes me happy. I'm a simple women.. well i like to think so,, But I just want my man happy.. He is truly a loving man.. I love the way he handles my boys and how he shares good times with them whether its break dancing or wrestling or playing football. I know my boys appreciate a dad that likes to play.
During the holidays is really special.. He always has kind things to say and treats me like a queen. We both share a common bond.. We both lost our loving mama's during the same times of the year and I know he has affected both of us.. Deep down inside we don't enjoy the holidays as much as years ago.. I mean how can we,, We lost the most important women in our lives and it seems it was so close to one another.. Right when we thought we were good then he loses his mama.. and my hubby took it hard it took years and alot of issues , fights at his commands and near separations. I know those days are gone. But often times , when alone and reflecting back.. I yearn for our mama's to be with us.. They left way too early... But like life you never know. and because of those losses, we learned to enjoy life every day.. Because you just never know when the last day will come. I know the Holidays are upon us and my loving man likes to entertain guest.. at our humble home. He seems to get a kick out of entertaining and retelling stories and years gone by,,, well he is a great story teller , comedian.. and I'm looking forward to to his recreations of the past.. I love my man with all my heart and I know he loves me dearly.. Together we have built a great life and I'm looking forward to his new endeavors like going back to school and learning a new career and reinventing himself.. I like everything about him. especially his new found patience and maturity... Its refreshing and exciting. yes.. indeed I love my man .. and I cherish our times on earth.. Because as he has said many times,, We need to enjoy each day because it may be our lasts..
THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @ 2012..
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