A females true best friend is their Daughter,,Inspired by someone I know..

A female best friend is their daughter or son. Inspired by someone I know..
 I have lived a rather diverse life and been around the world and experienced many situations, But one thing that is clear.. A mothers love for her kids is no match for any man,, If you cant deal with the fact the kids are priority over you, than your gonna get divorced whether you cheated or not.. But mean a lot of them rather cheat and get the marriage over than,, try to work things out? I mean lets face it.. as women get older they begin think about child birth and how painful that time was and how raising kids and seeing them grow up.. It's tough on a woman, and I have to admit women that are strong minded and keep focused on their jobs is really a powerful example of girl power.. I know a lot of men.. who may be insecure or even threatened by a independent and strong women. Its tough for the male ego to accept a woman's power.. When it comes to letting a woman drive,.,, I'm ok with that. But I know a lot of the alpha males want to be the aggressor the hunter.. and in that case.. women with strong successful careers , often suffer in the love department, I mean they can be sweet , but they ARE ALSO.. very demanding form their loved ones. As for me,. I realize a wise person takes advice from those who have been there. I know I have learned many lessons by the mistakes from others.. I know I have made many in My life and love to share them with my kids.. The kids in our lives understand and love their parents, but they also realize that parents are individuals with different personas and attitudes.. One parent is the enforcer the other one is the playful one,, But what happens when both are enforcers,, Then the kids are suffocated and often leave home disgruntled and unloved.. But women ,, especially successful ones know what they want , say what they want and get what they want. They don't care or care less about others think.. Do I think that's attractive? Yes , in the modern man image,, But the old fashioned guy always feel the guy is the boss and the women is second class citizen..
 I believe as the women get older and their kids get older especially their daughter's,, those become their true best friends,, and I'm good with that. and I feel if your married and have adult kids you have to deal with that.. I saw that when my eldest brother was my mom's best friend,, Papa felt left out,, and not so much papa didn't love mama, but when you lose that connection when someone it's over and its hard to bring it back,, That's why successful women as they get older ,, want their daughters as their true best friend.. Which is healthy, I mean they are women , they understand each others moods and thoughts. Men,, well most men,, are so into cars and sports and guy stuff.. Women,, are into feelings , emotions and having a connection with someone.. Its rare to click with someone , I know I haven't found anyone that is like me.. well , until now,, but even then I understand her emotion's and train of thought as she speaks about her daughter,, that's why I don't interfere or ever will when its their time to bond and have fun.. I mean a true friend lets their friend have their space and share happiness.. When a friend does that,, when its their time, its so much more special because both friends have taken care of their emotional needs.. When a women feels connected to someone especially after so many years of loneliness and soul searching,, that woman will not let go of that person.. why? Because they know those types of connections are so rare.. and because of that they wont let go that person,, guy or girl.. It doesn't have to have a sexual connection to make it so precious , but its that heartfelt , passionate , and caring thoughtfulness that makes the woman yearn for that friend.. But like I said as older woman get older and their kids get older .. those become the true best friends and for those men who are married to such women,, the chances are you cant compete and for those men and women who are friends  with these men or women,, You might be heading towards a dangerous dark road with no brakes on you car.. You cant compete with a woman's love and devotion to her daughter and son,.. Thus causing undue conflict with spouse, WHO because they feel left out,., drift away , cheat,, when you lose the reception,, Its easy for the marriage to get destroyed,, hiding , lying even about the littlest things can destroy or damage relationships.. LIfe like marriage is often a delicate commitment and, its tough to stay married unless you keep that bond going,, which I do withzumba , with tv watching, with how was your day dear or preparing a meal or snack its the little things that keep a marriage happy.. Because we all know we all do dumb things foolish things..But a strong marriage forgives , and goes on.. But for the older women.. They are concerned about the love and devotion of their daughters,., A daughters love is a older woman's true best friend.. Like I said,, I'm a wise man and I'm not even going to compete with a woman's love for their daughter.. Because 1000 percent of the time, The woman will always CHOOSE A DAUGHTERS LOVE AND APPROVAL , over a male or female best friend,, Its not just a fact but its reality and its common sense.. Yes,, a older women, seeks the loves and respect from their kids, and husband , wide or best friend are way down on the bottom of the list.. But .. in retrospect,, I expect a professional , and educated women to choose daughter over anybody,., But for a lot of us men,. Choosing or having to share affections ,. often don't work.. Men want to be the ones that make their wives happy, But older woman.. often times, they just want to have a emotional connection and  youthful one,, with their kids and with their best friends,., But the older woman get and the older the kids get ,, its a tough reality for older women... That's why. ? in my opinion they seek male companionship or such,.. because its their way to bring up the egos and their pride to feel wanted is a strong emotional addiction and older successful women, whether they realize that or not.. Do this to cope with their realization that their kids are grown up and on their own.. I know I see my young son growing up and becoming a fine young man, but I also see the wife get more saddened that her close friend , best friend son is soon going off to college and becoming a successful human being..
 A older woman's true best friend as they get older is not their husbands or boy friends , or male friend, IN the end, its her kids.. and anyone that is smart , including myself must realize you cant win in that kind of situation, just be happy with the time you get and enjoy it.. Because a older woman are very selective with who they like to spend their time with,.. and If your lucky to get that opportunity , embrace It , cherish and above all don't abuse it.. Because a older woman can always fall back tot heir true Best friends,, their daughters or sons. .. Its no contest,, That's the  way it is and that's the way you need to handle it.. if you want a marriage or relationship.. BUt unfortunately too many men wont or cant adjust to that arrangement, because if ego, pride and position.. Most men don't want to play second fiddle regardless if that's sibling or not,, A sad reality that often leads to divorce and a lot of lonely men and women.. But if you do find or discover a great friend with someone,, Enjoy those moments because they may be few and fleeting..
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