Life is so fragile -- inspired by someone i know..

Life is so fragile.. Inspired by someone I know..
 My friend is a fun loving , passionate dude that has had issues with relationships.. He has been divorced and finding someone special took him years.. BUT.. right when you think everything is great, He gets into a near fatal car accident.. I mean , he's alive but the pain and suffering and rehab he is going through.. has been .. painful , slow and I guessing frustrating.. I feel for him because I didn't realize how hurt he is,, He really opened up.. And it was heartbreaking,, I mean he cant walk very well or make other movements.. Man.. This guy was as loud and passionate as I am.. But to hear that he can barely walk or move his neck.. Really make me wonder about life.. In a second you can lose everything..  I know.. Getting my muscle car and racing down the highways have been fun.. But I also realize that any false move and I can be a dead man.. He tells me to be careful.. Because he's proof that car accidents are no joke.. I mean he's alive but living in pain and not able to walk and do the things you love to do must be depressing. I know I love dancing,, to think that one day I can lose all that.. Then what? Its just goes to show ,, take and embrace life .. because you may never know what tomorrow brings.. I'm enjoying what I have a wonderful wife and kids ,, and the best of friends Male and female,, But we all know the realities of life.. YOU ,, never know when the unexpected can happen.. Like death.. I know one of my classmates had to deal with that recently,, and Janie I'm so sorry for your loss, but like I said .. By keeping up his spirit and recalling the happy memories will make the pain of losing him more bearable.. BUT WE all know losing someone close hurts,, and maybe that's why,..,for  most of my life I don't want to get too close to people because I know How sensitive I am.. I rather keep friendships at a certain level.. But when it comes to MY wife and best friends.. I know I would be devastated, But we all know life goes on.. We have to be happy every day and cherish the love you have for everyone,, I know life is so unpredictable and often times cruel.. LIKE MY FRIEND who has struggled to find love and finally get it , only to be hit with a another blow to the gut ,, like a life threatening car accident.. Its makes me wonder and makes think that.. You cant take chances anymore ,, because you never know, I have gone through a lot of soul searching these past months and now I'm retired.. But one thing is clear, I'm realizing how busy life is and how difficult the realities of life are. My transition has been diverse and often times frustrating,, but now I know,, that you have to do what makes you happy and you have to stay focused.. I know I'm running full speed, and often times I neglect the big picture.. But one thing is clear.. You have to stay focused on your goals and aspirations and leave the negatives out of your head.. I know that I have achieved great success , but I also know that.. I'm entering a new phase , but hearing about deaths and near death experiences has certainly made me think twice about how to handle life... Its simple I like being around people that like me and like what I do.. as for the others who don't dig what I do.. Well for you. I have No time for you,.. People usually say or do things because its the way the feel. If they are sorry , its because they are sorry about the effect , more than what they said.. Life is so fragile-and for ALOt of us. We are entering the final stages of life.. I mean how long is the life expectancy..
78-80? I hate when people say life is short,, nope I think life is long enough,,, I also hate when people say I'm too old or your too old.. Once again ..I have no time for people like that.. I know some or a lot of people say I still act and think like a teenager,, But hey, its what makes me happy.. When it comes to work.. I like to dead serious,, but when I'm off work,, I like to have fun.. especially now that I'm retired and going to enter a new phase in life.... Life is so fragile and we all have to realize that nothing last forever and like our emotions.. There is always tomorrow.. so,,., with that.. Smile and take a deep breath and get set for tomorrow,.. Because we have so many things to do and enjoy like sunny weather , fresh air and special friends!!
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