Friendships types .. Reason , Season , lifetime ..

Friendships . Reason , Season , lifetime ..
  I learned  based on life events that there are friendships that happen fora reason . Like I know I has friends just for the moment like being a Navy brat I had friends for 3-4 years then I had to move away ,, those really hurt because I had to move especially when they moved first and your left behind .. it seems like the the times I left first it was easier to deal with . What did I learn from these events .. I learned you enjoy every moment and cherish them because we all knew in a few years either one of us would leave .. Yea we all say we will keep in touch .. but we all know out of eight
Of our mind it’s just human nature .. Especially today . People including myself want instant gratification so a long distance relationship or friendship usually don’t last . 
  Then you meet friends that are there for a season , these are the ones that you really click with , and you think that person will be there forever , but either you leave or they fi because of a new job or what .. they are gone .. and at the time we don’t understand why they left but if your a true friend you let your friends reach their goals even though it might mean they are out of your life . I know I have had close friendships and because I chose another path . They decided to part with a friendship like when I was younger I decided to join the military and my girlfriend didn’t want to be part of that life as she put it .. And I understand it’s a tough life for both parties .. long time away , in hams away .. loneliness , depression it’s all part of the deal .. but it still hurt me in fact he hurt for years because I decided to hold off on the military .. But she was no where to be found so if anything I learned she wasn’t totally sincere , but it gave me time to find myself or get lost .. right ? 
   Lifetime friends are really hard to find because they accept you as you are no matter what and no matter if you dint talk or text for days weeks months , when you reconnect it’s like you haven’t missed a beat .. Lifetimr friends don’t care about how you look or what you hAve ,they are there when you need to talk or vent and they are there when you need space in life ,, I know I feel life has cycled you have happy times , sad times and often times you need time and space to process your thoughts and emotions .. a lifetime friend even with short messages just let u know they are thinking about you snd the care your doing find , It’s what friends do ,..Plus it feels good when you know you have a friend that reaches out to you and it’s ok to deal with your pain ,, Because it’s scary to feel your friends pain because it could trigger something In you and it takes a great friend to care enough to not let you feel
That pain , because there’s nothing worse than 2 people going through similar pains at the same time It’s like arguments when someone is mad , the other needs to take it because when both are mad it’s going to be a loud encounter they only hurts one another.. I know it’s better to be receiver when your friend or lover is upset , that way you can hear what’s bothering them but when both are yelling ..Then you can’t hear what’s the issue ,, But that’s what life and friendships are all about . We all learn from the short friendships to the lifetime ones , There a reason why they came into your life . I know some people we really like and click with ., but as times goes on .. and you learn more about them . At times , our hearts only allow the true friends to see who we really
Are ,, It’s scary to open up to anyone . And we feel close to someone , you become vulnerable and scared to lose that person ., But through Time and actions your friendship will develop or not .. But like anything in life there are going to be rough times in life and the ones that are true to you , will
Stick by your side and the inner circle ,, will  stand by you .. Right or wrong ., that’s where loyalty comes from .. Nothing in life that’s worth having takes time and effort to keep alive .. Like if your friendship is worth it your going to fight for it .. But you have to feel they will do the same .. It shouldn’t be one sided ., but because we get blinded by love or that connection phase , we don’t want to let go of some friends.. The best test of my lifetime friends is when I can give them time away to live my life and when I want to reconnect .. and you can talk like you guys were never apart ,?Thats a true friend.. I have maybe 2-3 of those ,.,To me it takes a lot of work to maintain relationships or friendships.. so having just a few makes easier to take care of them . Because we all know we all get needy , we get jealous , we get impatient,, But a true friend leans on those they can trust and share happiness and sadness too .. It’s a lot of work but when you find special people in life you try your best to hold onto them .. Because based on life it’s really hard to really find people you feel relaxed with .life goes by so fast , enjoying what you have in life , is the greatest pleasure in life and you need to cherish them ,, Enjoy life and be happy ! 
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