True Love Connection.. Inspired by my Ex-girlfirends..

True Love Connection.. Inspired by my Ex-girlfriend's..Darlene..
 A true love connection is something we all yearn for.. A lot of the times we think Physical attraction is enough to make a connection.. But after years  of broken hearts and lies and deceit,. Its not really the case,, Physical attraction only last for moments or a one night stands.. and after so may of them.. I feel so shallow and empty.. Its not Real love.. I found after years of trial and errors.. The way to make a connection is.. First. You must develop a friendship. You must have similar thoughts and ideas.. In other words,, you must be best friends,, in heart , in mind and in spirit.. Before you can really love someone You must like that person.. Don't fool yourself.. You must like before love. Not the other way around.. Too many of us feel the physical attraction, and don't worry about the personalities. I recall one time I say this very pretty girl in high school,. and I said I really like you,, and her reply was?? what ? we just met? You don't know what music I like or my hobbies or what? needless to say that went no where, ? and I wondered why? Well I realize that in order to build a base or bond of love,, you must like the person first than go onto to love and perhaps.,. Marriage AND KIDS.. but TOO MANY OF YOU . including myself,, Get caught up in looks and neglect to look deeper into a persons Psyche.. To me.. I'm more attracted to a persons , persona , their image the perception and how they carry themselves. For me. I don't like Mini skirt wearing chicks,.. well I did back in the day,. But now . I like the sophisticated , humble and caring lady that doesn't draw attention TO HER SELF OR ME.  I love a woman that doesn't yearn for attention through fACEBOOK RANTS OR POSTINGS or seductive wearing clothes.. I want a woman,, kind like my MUscle Car.. Curves in the right spaces and great performance and handling. I love a woman that doesn't need to tell people she is sexy,, Its like the old saying.. A beautiful woman , doesnt need to say it. Its is shown by her smile m her confidence and how she takes care of her self.. A well dressed woman with class is what I like.. But like I said,, I developed a great friendship and bond with my wife. WE were best friends before anything else.. and because of that formula.. We developed a maintained a strong love affair and connection. We have a sense of humor and positive outlook on life that you need in a relationship.. WE DRINK NOT to drown our sorrows , like many do. W e drink to socialize to be happy and joyful and share great times with people that love us and respect us, and have unconditional love for one another. A true love connection is not forced m but a a fluid exchange of ideas, thoughts , feelings and love for one another. I know after years of misery and suffering in wrong relationships.. I know now and I appreciate the love connection we have build over the years. Theirs is no doubt we have arguments or heated discussions over trivial things. But in the end, Our Love m our respect for one another and our sense of humor is what has truly kept our love connection strong and growing. I'm so happy that despite all my mistakes and misfortunes with crazy girls,, I now have my true Love and true connection, she tells me everyday she loves me and I say the same, . But I also say I love you because you make me feel special and wanted.. These simple expressions every day is what strengthens our love and our sacred Marriage.. I know I'm not perfect and she isn't too , but together we are enjoying life as it comes and sharing tender moments with the true family that loves us.. You cant force a love connection and bond.. Those are established over time by the deeds we have done and the little reminders of love, Like birthday wishes before the day.. Those special dinners when it wasn't expected and of course the protection of one anothers image and perception among the ones we care about. To my wife , you have nothing to worry about..I know there are women that desire married men with established ;life stylers and financial stability.. But I only want my true love that has been with me,, in great times and in very sad times.. I know the support and love we shared during the deaths of our mama's and the losses of our dear friends is what created and established bonds that I could never recreate with any other women.. I know temptation is all around and I'm not going to say ,, Its easy to resist?? But I choose to not be in that situation.. For example.. The best way to not get fat.. is Don't get put of shape.. If you don't want to get into a wreck,,You simply drive carefully and be wary of others.. and when it comes to temptation.. Don't put yourself in that area.. Like being alone , or  in uncomfortable scenarios? They avoId issues you simply stay away,, Simpler said than done. But if you really love someone , you will do what needs to be dome on a daily basis. Like a growing tree or garden.. if left unattended, Ultimatley it will shrivel up and die.. NOTHING in life is guaranteed than how you treat your loved ones and yourself.. Nothing else in life we have no control over.. But our own feelings passions and true love for the people we care about.. I pray and hope all you continue harnessing the love you have and for those still searching , don't lose faith.. You have other things in life you need to attend to... True love when come when you are ready for that phase.. But for now, enjoy the freedoms of single life and for those blessed with marriage .. cherish that a bond no matter what the haters and jealous demons out there try to mock you.. Because people hate what they cant have or desire.. Thus they choose to make you miserable. But my motto in life is " Its Mind over Matter, I don't mind because you don't matter.." take care always and be happy!!
THE SOURCE PRODCUTIONS @ 2013