Life is not easy.. Inspired By someone I know...

Life is not easy.. Inspired by some one I know..
 Life is not easy! If you think so, your are solely misguided . If you want anything in life you have to work hard and apply yourself.. and that doesn't mean working min wage jobs or what. I mean finding a career in health , or finance , technology , law , military.. If you want to succeed you have to choose a path that takes hard work, good grades , good image and a support group that cares about improving oneself.. I know about being with losers or party goers.. They are only concerned about getting high on pot or excessive drinking or wasting mindless hours dreaming about the good life instead of working for it. I'm not saying I didn't enjoy those youthful ventures. Geez,, its a phase or a part of growing up.. But that's just it..When I decided it was time to mature and have a future..The toughest part was breaking away from fiends or so called friends.. I mean. They were my support group for so many years. they were there so to speak.. when I needed to vent or let loose,. Not my parents.. I mean my parents are those old fashioned , square peg, nerdy folks from the islands.. They don't know shit.. Or at least I thought so.. But... Guess what???
 They knew more about life than I ever could imagine. They said things that at the time didn't make sense,. But do now... Like time waits on no one. and the longer you wait to start your career the less time you have to enjoy the fruits of your success. especially during these times.. Many people who are double wage earners are losing their homes.. My uncle who is a retiree and his wife are making good money and have all the riches of a large dream home and dream cars,. but they also have kids that are going to college and need cars and things.. I see the stress , but they are inspiring because they don't whine, they don't complain, or whine about their situation.. They find solutions , whethers its working more hours.. Cutting on expenses or pursuing educational goals that will help them in the future.. In life .. you cant always get what you want. But if you try .. You can get what you need. Thus .. My situation.. I have suffered with bad relationships and things but guess what. I refuse to quit or give up.. I go to school, I look for network of contacts that will assist me in my goals in the health field.. Its not easy.. finding jobs these days but I feel My stay with my Auntie and Uncle has been inspirational and educational.. Sure .. We make statements with the way we look or act. But that's who we are.. We cant please everyone.. and to be honest.. I don't care.. about you if your not inspiring me to do well or advising me well. I know its fun to be a Rebel// But these days. you have to make friends and you have to deal with issues head on.. Drinking , drugging and pretending or dreaming about things will only waste your time and life.. Life is so fast and to see some of my family and friends Give up or what? Just makes me so unhappy and upset. I have high expectations for my true family and friends.. I want them to succeed . I advise them well, like be respectful to your parents and don't use face book as trigger for laughs from loser friends.. But to each is own.. I mean , I have high standards,.,. I don't need silly young kids, doing min wage jobs and then blowing it on drinking.. To me,. during these uncertain times is dangerous.. The times are tough and the future even looks bleaker .. Not to have jealous , envious and silly young kids encourage me to disrect or belittle my parents.. But like I said.. to each is own.. and.. I'm more classy than that. Its one thing when you do that when your a confused young teenager.. Its another when your in college or what and over 21 years of age.. That to is ignorance, and damn useless behavior.. A true wise person,. learns from thier mistakes or misfortune's.. a fool continues to make them and doesn't realize their impotencies.. But like i said.. Some folks take longer to begin life.. and Like my Uncle said to me.. The tragedy of life is not the shortness of it, but how late many people begin to live... Life is not suppose to be a easy road.. if you want things.. you need to apply yourself.. Nothing happens overnight.. You make plans or goals and you achieve them.. But for alot of us.. We think making fun of family on fb or getting a few laugh from friends with no future seems like a better way to live.. Not me.. I'm a classy girl. and yes,. I'm no Saint , but I'm no devil. either.. and at least I'm trying.. and at least I have the self respect and dignity not to criticize or belittle a parent that has given nothing but love and her life to make sure you become something special.. But to each is own.. But It just breaks my heart that a intelligent and bold relative of mine is wasting time and money on frivolous things that will not make her life improve.. But .. she says I'm ok.. But .. I see , like many of her true family and friends that she is going on a dangerous road of deceit, betrayal and delusions of grandeur that is leading to nothing but empty promises and unrealized goals and aspirations.. We can only say or write or advise you so much.. Its up to you cuzzin.. I hope you save yourself... because We are so heartbroken to see such a young and potentially gifted individual.. just waste away with malcontents, unmotivated , no ambition dreamers who think drinking and drugging is the true happiness of life.. Only  a fool thinks that lifestyle is the way to go!! Take care and hope this blog really makes a statement to those I care about.... 
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