Your not alone.. Inspired story by Navy Wives..

Your Not Alone , Inspired story by Navy Wives,,
 Your are not alone.. My wife knows the pains and sufferings of being a Navy Wife.. The long deployments , the loneliness , the stress of raising a family with no father. We Navy guys don't really realize the pain and suffering we put our spouses through. I mean , sure we are stressed at sea life. But We leave the wives with the bills, the tensions of kids , the decision making.. Its a tough road for any wife.. But we navy guys,. No matter how we say we understand.. We don't. Just like we cant expect our wives and girl friends to understand our plight.. No matter how much detail we go into.. Unless you live it, you breathe it.. You really have no clue.. and any man that thinks he knows , You are misguided and delusional. I didn't know the extent of house work and taking car of kids until I retired and being on Leave.. Life as a mother is a tiring and thankless job. The Kids are busy with school, activities , enjoying their youth.. But for Wives left at home.. It can be overwhelming.. But guess what? Don't give up.. There is help.. Maybe not overnight, But like the abuse , or stress or what that was being thrusted upon you for years.. You can still make a difference , you can still become that productive person. I know ,, it seems life is so hard to deal with, But guess what? There is help.. If not family , seek professional help.. The Navy has many services, counseling , classes, etc that can help you deal with whatever ails you, But bottom line.. YOU need to help yourself. You need to reach out .. Because when you hurt yourself , you are also hurting others close to you. We are willing to help , but you need to reach out and ask.. Alot of us are so caught up with our own lives and troubles , that we figure everyone has the same strengths and avenues of assistance . But reality is we all have our strengths and weaknesses , No one is perfect and no one is immune to downfalls in life.. We all face sadness and tragedies.. But guess what? That's life. you live , you learn and you overcome.. You have too, because the alternative is death.. If you quit , its game over.. So Never Quit , Never Surrender.. Ask for help.. I'm willing to help.. But My skills and my knowledge is limited to what I know.. Seek help , not from books, or TV or even my advice blogs.. If you have trouble , seek assistance, Its the prudent and responsible thing to do.. I know everyone that reads my blogs are hard working and responsible people that want to succeed in life. I want the best for everyone! That's the honest to goodness truth.. Why would I want anything different.. I'm a good natured , fun loving , but passionate person that takes pride in what I say or do and how I say it or do it. Not everyone is cool with my methods , but sometimes you need to have someone that is ass kicker, a motivator and realist to get things flowing.. Nothing in life just happens. If you want anything great.. It takes hard work, patience and passion.. Nothing ventured , nothing gained! So, I hope my advice on this blog makes anyone that is hurting to reach out and Don't give up!! Help is always around, Don't despair! Anything can be worked out.. But remember that years of abuse , or neglect will take maybe not as long , but is not a quick fix.. A Life style change and a decision to break away from such a difficult situation may be the solution, Even if it means " Being alone .. from those that caused you such pain and suffering.. You are not alone.. !! Family , close friends and Navy Services or civilian services that help you deal with your life style and you must make the decision to change!! To the many navy Wives that have held down the fort while we , Sailors , sailed the seas and fought the wars.. WE appreciate your efforts and We are thankful for your faithful service to us.. because whether we wont to admit it.. WE succeeded because you took care of business at home!! 
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