What women want from Men? Inspired by my Best friend..

What women want from Men? Inspired from my best friend..MEL....
 What women want from men? I know the usual answers.. Great looks, great body, Money , Big house , big cars.. etc.. But really.. Most women want men that are honest , not only with them , but with themselves... A man who know who he is and what he is capable of is the greatest turn on or friendship tool you will ever have. Theres nothing worse than watching a boy or man.. trying to be something he is not.. If your not a bad ass , stop trying to act like one.. if you are nerd but trying to be hip.. somethings just don't match.. be who you are and most of all .. Just be there for your lover or friend.. What do I mean ? Well alot of the time , most of the time. Women just want to vent or let out their feelings. Its what makes a women tick.. Its they way they are wired.. unlike alot of men.. Women like to get in touch with their female and sensitive sweet sides.. Hey .. its why men love women.. The pink , lavender colors , the freely girly stuff is what makes a women a women.. I  know i have some high school classmates that can probably kick half of the guys asses in high school or even now.. But that's the exception to the rule.. Women in general are sweet , caring , motherly creatures that care about humanity and being kind. The acts of violence or hurting and breaking things ,, Makes no sense to them.. Unlike men.. breaking things or tearing things up like off roading or car burn outs.. making a spectacle of ourselves,... to alot of women.. Makes no sense.. or as my wifey say all the time.. " Save that stupid shit for your stupid alpha male muscle car goons...!!' haha..
 Well anyways... like i said women just want someone to hear them out ,, no matter it takes forever.. Just be there.. If you don't like listening to that stuff ..well guys.. your not going to have alot of female friends.. and i know the old stereotype.. macho image.. I cant be friends with a women.. I need to seek and conquer.. Well those days are gone.. This is today's woman, and today's woman are smarter , wiser and and more independent .. They are SUPER WOMEN.. but like everyone in life , we have our break downs.. and they need to vent, and alot of times women like to vent to me.. Venting to other women is too close to home.. I mean women know how women think and they feel if they open up to those close to them they will feel less secure .. Well some do.. That's why women want male friends.. The disconnect happens when men.. yes.. men think all the openness and sharing secrets is a invite to jump a woman bones so to speak.. Wrong.. if you want to lose a great friend.. Than betray their trust and we all know ...guys. a woman SCORNED  or betrayed is a woman you don't want to mess with,, 
 Example.. when men fight each other ,, we shake hands and become best of friends,, When women fight they want to tear your eyes out.. rip you hair out.. I mean vicious.. Cat fights to this day are the most vicious and heart felt fights you can see.. Even back on the day.. watching girls fight is breathtaking and passionate.. So .. back to my point..... When it comes to women.. Just listen and be there.. you don't have to solve things or offer assistance.. Based on personal experience. Just lending a open year and offering support for their wants and needs is enough.. and don't betray or take their sweetness or openness as a invite for sexual advances... I have seen alot of guys mis read signals.. Mostly the alpha male with big egos and severely arrogant and proud.. They think they are gods gift to women and what wouldn't women want to play with them.. Well guys.. its new time and anew age for the modern women.. Get with the program.. If you do you will enjoy female companionship and friends and if love interest do develop.. Let them lead the way.. and anyways.. Making friends and getting to know one another is a better tool than any web site or bar where alot of those profiles or come ons .. are just that fake , phony tools to attract attention for one night stands or what ? Just food for thought when you want to know what women want from men.. I hope this helps you and remember.. Having a friend from the opposite sex can be one of the most complete and natural events in your life.. It can be your guide , your conscience your twin...and I must say I thank my best friend who is a female.. for helping me become a better person.. Until my next blog.. take care and keep reading!!
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