Live for today, the past is history and tommorow may not come

Live for today , the past is history and tomorrow may not come!!By Mel Paras
 Today is a gift ! That's why they call it the Present. Because the fact every morning the man above allows us to enjoy another day on earth is truly my favorite activities in my young life. I love life , I love everything about life, the foods, the smells, the fresh air, the ideas of doing new things or old habits.. The little things like eating your favorite foods , or driving your favorite car or just doing things you love to do.. read , write , exercise, hobbies.. etc.. Its the little things in life I get a feel good rush out of. 
 Life is meant to be lived , not to be watched, so get up and do what makes life fun.. Like taking a walk in the sunshine and breathing in the sights and sounds of life. birds. planes. cars . kids playing in the park. In this hustle and bustle life we live.. We often neglect to see the real meaning of life , the true essence of life.. Life is a constant cycle , of living, dying, reproducing,  hardships, TROUBLES.. issues .. journeys..Life was never meant to be a easy ride. and if it is that means you never tried to do anything in life.. I have made mistakes and errors and done many unforgettable things. But that's why its called the teenage years or the young adult phase.. We all have to face obstacles and over come them.. Th old adage. when times get tough the tough get going...That is so true.. Its how you respond to the tragedies that will dictate ones character. Nothing great in life is achieved without some thought ,planning, blood , sweat and tears. At times , we all question why we get tested or faced with so many obstacles, while others seem to slide though life. But looks can be deceiving. Even those that seem to have everything have issues with alcohol abuse,. drugs, addictions to gambling , love , attention .. etc.. But we must overcome.. Its what life is all about. Every day is a journey , a struggle to be the best one can be...Nothing stays the same. Every day we have to re-establish our image our perceptions.. People have short memories.. Its what have you done lately.. I know that so clearly.. I served 20 + years in the Navy.. and No matter how hard you have done things well. Its all about today.. Today is what you are judged on.. Not yesterday , not what you can do tommorow.. Its what you have to offer today.. So, My advice is.. greet each day as a welcome . greeting card.. even to those that already know you.. Its the last memory,. family or friend have of you.. Is today.. whether its a phone call or text.. or face book posting. twitter . or what.. Your last words or ideas id what many people in society judge you on.. Fair or unfair.. Well guess what? Life is not fair.Life is a mean mother.. She like father time. keeps going an going and going.. and waits and cares about no one. If you think that way.. Then you are living a pipe dream. Life is meant to be lived. its meant to challenge you every day in making the best decisions that good for your future.. But remember,,, if even you don't do things , that affects your life.. Deciding to do nothing is a choice also. Don't be afraid of failure or not performing well. Don't let ego or pride dictate what you want to accomplish. I'm embarking on a new phase in my life and believe me I'm concerned , But I also realize I did what I could do in last career and I'm looking forward to using my knowledge , skills , experience and leadership , motivational skills to help the civilian world. Now my challenge to all of you.. Is.. Love to live , and Go out and accomplish great things. Be around people that encourage you and offer you inspiration. Those Debbie downers, or negative Nancie's.. or Party on peeps that think partying every day is the true test of happiness, are all just delusional , fanciful dreamers that are lost in their own minds.. True character comes from those that have the strength and desire to reach their potentials and continue to strive to be the best they can be. My advice is simple.. Live for today , and don't dwell on the past.. Its done , its history , you should learn from your past , but don't try to live in it.. And for the future.... Why worry about something that is uncertain, and will come on its own.. Live for today.. and enjoy the moment!! 
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