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Wednesday, May 10, 2017

How to attract men.. Based on life experiences..

How to attract men.. Based on life experiences..
  
  Ok , since I'm a man, this sounds weird but what I'm going to share with you , is what I have see women in my life have done to attract me..

   Women are attracted to manly men, men that have that chiseled look , right? While men are easily attracted by looks and behavior,, If a women looks hot she must be hot,, Personality , emotional whatever..
  Men are hunters and they are looking for women with healthy butts and curves in the right places, and of course breasts, But these day alot of women are getting implants, so men tend to look at curves in the right places and healthy butts.. Because those features take working out to get.. Get me>? But there are a small amount of men with less tester one , and less manly? Who are ok with a women thqt is less feminine and more decisive and controlling, that's where a man has more feminine qualities and wants a women to take charge of the relationship , which in many cases women don't want to do that? But there are guys like that? 
  The cute girls brings out the protective manly side of men , the ones that want to protect and conquer , almost I'm your daddy syndrome. When a cute girl shows her vulnerable side, Many men cant help be the protector the aggressor..Its the hunter in them that gets revealed...
 But to a feminist , acting cute and vulnerable is a sign of weakness and those women will not show their female side to men, thus the conflict..

 Here's the hook women use successfully to attract a mans attention..
1)Dress is softer tones of color , like pastels or earthy colors it makes you look healthier and make you appear attractive to men.. 
2)Smile often, nothing spells sexiness or appeal then a smile,,It automatically makes you feel friendly and warm.. and Men are suckers to that. Its their ego your touching and once you did that , everything falls into place.. 
3)Let your hair down, and run your hand through your hair, Its a instant come on and just projects your sex appeal..Its something about long hair a women waving it or whipping it around,, Just looks and feels sexy, and men are visual creatures, anything that looks good and sexy, they are  prone to it , unless they are Gay , heart broken, or dead.. haha.. 
4)The head down , blushing or smiling at them will also catch their attention.. Men like being fLirted with and its a turn on when women do these things. >> I know it sounds so simple and high schoolish but men are like over aggressive teenagers that want to please, they like seeing sexy things , thats why porn is a multi billion business. Men enjoy having pleasure , especially visual wise. It makes them feel manly and wanted. When a man feels wanted , then the women has their way with men. Some men are harder to attract because they know these signs and know their status , so the dont be attracted to these women that have these traits down.. For men that are a harder attraction .

 They prefer women that less attainable , feminine but knows how to exude cinfience and power, these women are head strong and not flirty, They want the man to pursue them and enjoy the games they play. On the other hand a man who likes to play games , will engage and play along. The other men who are less patient and more stable in their personality , will back off  thus causing a friction with alot of women. Women in general. if you want to attract a man. having that sexiness , that flirtiness and that vulnerability , you Will get the protective man, While the other man wants a more dominating, controlling women in their life.  You have to observe a mans personality,, If hes dresses manly and looks manly , he a alpha male with testerone ready for action. But if the man is a pretty boy or likes looking cute,, Then he has less testerone and more likely want a controlling and dominating women, For the other men. They want a balanced women that is both smart witty , and cute , but has the courage to tell a man, this is what I want , and if you do it,, we are good, if not, well,, you know whats up. You have to please a women , because if you don't ..the nest guy or man will..and there is plenty of men and women out there ready to play.. 

Bottomline ;You don't have to play dumb or weak to attract , if anything showcase your sexiness and be confident with men, that's a turn on. Because men do enjoy a challenge and do enjoy showing off their manliness, when a man feels you were worth the chase, they will hold you in higher regard and that's how it should be. Don't make it easy for us men, Because if anything ,, we men like to feel like we accomplished something when hooking up with a girl,, If you make it easy they will lose respect and you might be a one night stand. That alot of men may enjoy but not relationship material,. 

Well I hope this helps women or men,, on how to attract men. May you find your own journeys and lessons in life, Because life is a journey and life flies by so fast. I know. I;m past the century mark and counting. and based on the first part of my life. I'm looking forward to many high and low's and joy and pains that come with life, No one is immune to pain and suffering. Treat each day as a lifetime , because you never know when you life is over. Be good to one another and love each other ! We are God's children...

THE SOURCE PRODUCTIONS @2017

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