What would you do? Based on life events..

What would you do? based on life events.

   Hello everyone, I hope all is well in your life. Well tonight's blog is what would do? Ok.. Imagine you have been with some one forever , a lifetime, and then suddenly they leave you , first they curse you out , in person and with a voice mail, in a strange way you never saw. I mean when people get angry ,we say and do things that are hurtful. But if they way they say it is so bzarre, it just makes you wonder , working long hours or what , stress can make you act strange. Ok now imagine that same person accuses you of things that are far fetched and untrue,, I mean just because you go to a strip club doesn't mean you screwed those girls. We know in California , that's impossible in those clubs,, but guys no matter who you are, enjoy watching women strip ..I mean . we do Right. But anyways.. it doesn't mean you slept with them and besides that's prostitution and that's not allowed in California,,illegal .. Vegas,, yes,, But this is liberal state in California where you cant even drink a beer in front of strippers Go figure, ??but anyways this so called special someone accuses you of screwing girls, getting high on weed and getting drunk ..Now think about that if someone does that how can they get a security clearance job, stay employed and still raise his kid. Don't you think , if someone did those things,, neighbors, or the school officials would notice? Just a thought. I mean most men or women, would tolerate such accusations especially untrue or unfounded So what makes people jump t =conclusions, well from my own experience, its done by people that react before gathering any facts or evidence, but assuming things based on conjecture or bogus  evidence is ridiculous, just because someone goes to strip club doesn't mean he had sex with the strippers. Or just because someone has a hookah. doesn't mean they use to smoke weed, or just because has a few beer doesn't mean they are drunk all the time.. ? Am I right.. I mean what would you do if someone you love and care for says those things,? First of all that's disRESPECTful , and not a kind of person I would like to be with am I right. What would you do.. I know.. for me,,as I have grown up and life is fleeting , I want to be around happy people  I want to be around people that build you up and respect you.Someone that says these things are not on your side, instead they are a toxic person that needs to leave your universe. So why does anyone stay wit that person? One reason , kids, another reason is your a stubborn hard headed ego maniac that feels they can fix anyone or anything. Another reason, you don't want to fail at anything, marriage , relationships I mean no one wants to fail at marriage or love, its human nature, but when someone continues to belittle you and make you feel like shit. Why bother with that person right? I,m just saying what kind of person lets that happen to them? A insecure person that is scared to move on? A ego maniac that feels he or she can fix any issues in a relationship? A person that loves drama and pain? A person that wants things to work out regardless of the pain and misery he or she endures, A person that is a dreamer and even though the writing is on the wall, he or she cant pull the trigger so to speak, I mean .. If someone does that ,To me , thats grounds of leaving that relationship or marriage. If the person you love shows no remorse in what they say and your the one always trying to make it work.. The simple solution is to leave the relationship or marriage, am I right.. What would you do everyone? I say , no one deserves to be put int hat much misery in life. Its not healthy and it can make someone just go crazy,, I mean you hear the news people killing others over love or breakups. People getting even not mad with that person. I mean the human psyche can only take so much? Am I right.??. So what would do under this scenario.?? Yes, just leave, right? I mean even i the person is the best looking person ever, no one deserves such pain and misery , no matter what they did. We are supposed to be God's children and if you feel like a person is hurting you too much , you let them go.. So why does that person stay and why does that person place so much pain on someone? Its hate , its revenge, its evil? Whatever it is, I have to give props t that person to take it , year i and year out. That's takes strength and stamina,, but its also is very stupid, Wheres your dignity ? Wheres your self worth? I mean I 'm sure your kids are think why is he or she taking it ? Its just doesn't make sense to stay in a toxic relationship its not good for your mental or emotional health, so what would you do? Its simple right. But this person has taken it for years and continues because of love , because of memories, because of image , because of pride , because they are afraid? To be be alone , to be happy , to be free, I mean this seems like a alot of stress to deal with on a daily , weekly , monthly or yearly basis. But believe it or not this is a true event that is happening? So what you do.. Keep it together and try to make it happen even after years of nothing changing.. Or do you leave this scenario and learn to love oneself and be happy to be alive and Have God's power with you every day. It seems like a simple action to do.. But some people are dreamers , some people love drama or some people just believe in being loyal even though the person they love shits all over you.. What would you do? Because this person is a good person with a wonderful heart and enjoys making people happy. A pleaser,, But they fail to please themselves and that's what so sad about this true life scenario,, What would you do? Its seems simple , but this person is living in misery to please who? Everyone what would you do? It seems so simple but the person living it doesn't want to see it or simply is too afraid to see whats the truth. The saying , some people cant handle the truth, and in this case..Some people cant handle it but some people cant accept it.. What would you do? May God bless everyone and be true to yourself!
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